whyme76 Posted July 21, 2013 Posted July 21, 2013 After my ex dumped me he would ALWAYS respond to my texts, sometimes within the hour, sometimes next day. But he always responded. I texted him about 1x a week for 6 weeks after the breakup. I said some mean things in the heat of the moment during the breakup. So after 6 weeks I sent an apology - pasted below. It's been 2 weeks and I never heard a peep back from him. I know he was away for the day (facebook stalked, pls don't judge) to an area that has spotty connections, sort of middle of nowhere type place. 1. So is he ignoring me, or did he not get the text? He's always responded back even if it was just "ok" 2. Is my text horribly desperate sounding? I honestly feel badly about my immature reaction. What I sent: "1st let me say that I recognize you want me out of your life & that I am bothering you. I've been struggling with sending you this, but I want to look back & remember good memories & not this. You are a special person & I just wanted to express that I really am sorry for my nasty text to you. It came from a place of hurt and I really regret being so insensitive. I took it too far when I should have been an adult & said ok & accepted everything without lashing out. It's been weighing heavily on me, and I realize I needed to apologize to let it go. I am sorry to have interrupted your day. Please take care."
Ordinaryday Posted July 21, 2013 Posted July 21, 2013 He definitely received the text, you're in denial. Silence IS a response, meaning 'I don't have anything to say to you'. Last year I went out on three dates with a woman and I thought we all hit it off, she seemed to have fun. I texted her again about another date and she never responded. For a few moments I was in denial thinking the text 'might not have been sent properly' but then I smartened up and realized that she 200% read the text. She just chose to ditch me in the cowards way
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