buzzie2 Posted July 21, 2013 Posted July 21, 2013 He was acting extremely interested in me at first, and was flirting, showing up at where I worked, always staring at me and even invited me over to a party he was having. I thought things went well, we had a good time and I got to know him a bit better and met his friends who seemed to like me. Then after that he avoided me, and stopped showing an interest. What could I have done wrong?
tbf Posted July 21, 2013 Posted July 21, 2013 In my omnipotent opinion, you stepped on his puppy. This made him angry. To make matters worse, you deep fried his pet turtle which he was saving for Christmas dinner. No idea. A little detail about the party might help.
Author buzzie2 Posted July 21, 2013 Author Posted July 21, 2013 Well I mingled with his friends, got to talking to them a bit, then stayed later then most of the friends and mainly talked to him to get to know him better, but did not do anything physical or romantic with him. Do you think this it what I did wrong?
FebruaryAmor Posted July 21, 2013 Posted July 21, 2013 What did you and the friends u mingled with discuss? Did the know u from somewhere before this party?
BluEyeL Posted July 21, 2013 Posted July 21, 2013 His interest level wasn't too high to begin with, or he would have asked you out on an official dates. Flirting and staring are signs of interest, but asking you on a date is a better indication. Indeed there is no information on why he lost interest, maybe you did say/do something that turned him off, or maybe he met someone else, who knows.... Just forget him and move on to find someone who has a high interest level.
PlumPrincess Posted July 21, 2013 Posted July 21, 2013 Well I mingled with his friends, got to talking to them a bit, then stayed later then most of the friends and mainly talked to him to get to know him better, but did not do anything physical or romantic with him. Do you think this it what I did wrong? I've come to the conclusion that a lot of guy expect clear indicators of interest soon, otherwise they will assume that you are not interested in them. They probably work the girls like on an assembly line and if one is not showing interest quick enough, it's "next one". In a way, it's kind of understandable, guys usually have to pursue the girls and when you go through a couple of unattainable girls you fawned over, but who never returned your interest, you try to avoid this experience and move on more quickly. According to your previous description, he showed interest in you, but you haven't shown that much yet. So...
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