kimber Posted October 26, 2004 Posted October 26, 2004 Do guys say stupied things to there ex's? like I was talking to mine after not talking for a bit, I moved away from him (thought that it was just a visit that I was doing) Had to go 1500 miles to get my things, ended up staying out there for a extra week ( he asked me to). now that I am back he is saying crazy things to me. Like go out tonight and galavant, go to the bar and pick up guys, uhm asking that if I use things that he has in the past bought me that is sexual. Why is he suddenly asking all of this and why is he acting so weird!!!! Any advise about this and why it is happening would be great
BlueLP Posted October 26, 2004 Posted October 26, 2004 I ask all my ex's about their sex accessory usage, what's so unusual about that? j/k More details about your situation would be helpful, but I'm guessing that this guy is either freaking out over losing you and losing his grip on that filter we all have between our minds and mouths, or else he's playing some games with you. He might be trying to gauge your reactions to these things to test how serious you are about the breakup. Whatever the reasons behind it, a little no contact may be needed if he keeps being weird.
kimber Posted October 26, 2004 Posted October 26, 2004 I came out to visit my kids and could not leave them behind again. I have always raised them however I moved them across Canada and my oldest one (15) started to get into trouble, Italked to her father and we agreed that it would be best for her to move back with him. My son also came back (9) to live with him. I had one daughter thats 13 with me. We came out here and we both could not leave them, It hurt to be without them. I know from my side that I am very open and honest with him. I asked him to be the same way with me about our personal situations (dating) I do love him, I do miss him however I did felt torn. When I went back I spent the full week with him, It was great!!! But I had to come back home. The first few times that we talked he was cool but then he started to talk about these things. It just weirds me out abit. I asked him if he felt it was best that I stop calling him, He said no way. I asked him why he is talking like that, He said I do not know. Thats what brought me here to ask guys. I know everyone can only guess but at least it is better then I do not know. We have said that we will visit eachother thats one reason to asking about the personal situation in our lives. I know when I see him and he sees me there will be physical contact. I think that it is fair that we both be honest about that.. He also agreed to be honest too with me... Hope the info is good Thanks
Scott S Posted October 26, 2004 Posted October 26, 2004 Originally posted by kimber Like go out tonight and galavant, go to the bar and pick up guys, uhm asking that if I use things that he has in the past bought me that is sexual. Why is he suddenly asking all of this and why is he acting so weird!!!! Any advise about this and why it is happening would be great Some men get aroused or excited about the idea of their girlfriends/wives being with other men. They want to hear the details (or perhaps observe from a hidden location, like a voyeur), & thereby have a vicarious sexual experience. Personally I wouldn't care for this, but there is no accounting for taste. There are those who would likely not care for some of the things I find arousing.
DJ_Dork Posted October 26, 2004 Posted October 26, 2004 Originally posted by Scott S Some men get aroused or excited about the idea of their girlfriends/wives being with other men. They want to hear the details (or perhaps observe from a hidden location, like a voyeur), & thereby have a vicarious sexual experience. Personally I wouldn't care for this, but there is no accounting for taste. There are those who would likely not care for some of the things I find arousing. Whoever those guys are.. they got mental issues.
Kimber Posted October 26, 2004 Posted October 26, 2004 No he is not like that at all, And I do now live 1500 miles away, I did talk to him again cuz it was bugging me so much, he said that he is saying it hoping that i am here and having fun, I told him that i did not care to hear it from him anymore and that it is weirding me right out, I told him that I am having fun here but not with guys, really just wanting to be honest with him. He said do not take it the way that I am taking it, lol ok then how esle do i take these questions, however i did ask that he not tlak like that anymore, He also indicuated that he was planning on coming out here for christmas to be with me, I told him great,,, Another reason that I think that he is asking these questions, making sure that I am not woth anyone else....That wouls distroy him and thats something that i do not want to do!!!
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