LovelyScars Posted July 20, 2013 Posted July 20, 2013 My friend of three-four years now is quite confusing. She has depression so I normally hear her out and let her get everything out even if I don't say much in the conversation at all. Lately she started talking to her ex again, after her recent boyfriend kinda disappeared(no messages, no calls, nada) She use to hate this girl who hung out with her ex, the other girl was closer to her ex and always took his attention. She would rant on and on about how much she hated her and now their friends. I am confused by this logic, when I dislike someone I stay in the dislike zone unless I actually find common piece with them or I realize it was nothing. She tells me that the other girl is actually quite nice and she hopes her ex and her will start dating. But when I ask her about how they became friends and didn't you use to hate her. She gets all defensive and says well the past is the past, I was just jealous and nothing more. Is this normal for people to do this? I find it kind of two-faced.
LBlanc Posted July 20, 2013 Posted July 20, 2013 I wouldn't say its normal for everyone, but I know lots people who would bitch and rant about a certain someone and then later act like that someone was their long lost BFF when he/she's is around. 1
SpiralOut Posted July 21, 2013 Posted July 21, 2013 Sometimes people change their minds about someone. I don't think it's two faced unless she continues to complain about her while still acting as if they are friends. 1
Radu Posted July 21, 2013 Posted July 21, 2013 Maybe she's so desperate for human contact that she is willing to rationalize everything. Ask me how i know ... depression for 6yrs, untreated. 1
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