9Lives Posted October 26, 2004 Posted October 26, 2004 Are you like a nice apartment for lease with no option to buy? Is the guy your with just kicking it with you until what he really wants comes along then he will put the love you want into her. His queen. What is your status? What is he really up to? Think of a apartment or a house. Which one are you really? I CAN BET YOU, YOUR MAN KNOWS THE ANSWER.
honey2005 Posted October 26, 2004 Posted October 26, 2004 Why do I have to be leased or owned? Why can't I just be myself in a relationship with someone who respects me and doesn't think of me as property. I don't think I'm either of the things you mentioned.
Stone Posted October 26, 2004 Posted October 26, 2004 I am that luxurious mansion overlooking the ocean with the stain glassed windows and the beautiful hedges, everybody wants but nobody can own!!! LOL ( kidding) What the heck!!
Author 9Lives Posted October 26, 2004 Author Posted October 26, 2004 Originally posted by honey2005 Why do I have to be leased or owned? Why can't I just be myself in a relationship with someone who respects me and doesn't think of me as property. I don't think I'm either of the things you mentioned. Dont take it literally as property. What I mean is that guys know when they have dated you for a short period of time, most of the time, if they want to build a wholesome long lasting relationship with you or if they are just in it until something comes along that is better. Leasing is a term used to describe a situation that a lot of women are in. If you are satisified with your relationship status. That is fine. It is up to you what you like.
Author 9Lives Posted October 26, 2004 Author Posted October 26, 2004 Originally posted by stoneheather I am that luxurious mansion overlooking the ocean with the stain glassed windows and the beautiful hedges, everybody wants but nobody can own!!! LOL ( kidding) What the heck!! You go girl. But seriously. When a woman gets witha man and she is really into him and she wants to have something to hold on to. She needs to know where she stands and know when to bow out if necessary...right?
Stone Posted October 26, 2004 Posted October 26, 2004 I see what you are saying, usually after the first couple months I can tell if there is a long term commitment or not and if there is not then "Hit the Road jak lease is up"
Jilly10340 Posted October 26, 2004 Posted October 26, 2004 I see dating as a casual relationship to get to know the person and see if you want to start a serious relationship or not.
Author 9Lives Posted October 30, 2004 Author Posted October 30, 2004 That is cool, But what do you want OWNERSHIP....LEASED...HO-TEL Leasing is not really what most women want especially when the love the man. He is wasting her time, youth, and energy The Hotel is the chic who sleeps with the man and they have absolutely nothing together Ownership is the relationship that a man invest in if he is serious. He will spend his time, his money, his life, his love, THE HOUSE GETS IT ALL.
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