rastamoose Posted July 20, 2013 Posted July 20, 2013 Not really a problem compared to some people's on here. I just don't know what to do. Me and my ex broke up about 7 weeks ago. We are meant to be friends, but for the past 2 weeks I have been doing my own secret NC. It is her birthday next week, do I send her a happy birthday text? I do want to be friends, but in my own time. I don't know why dumpers expect you to be able to be friends straight away. I just don't want her to think I hate her, I don't. She didn't do anything but be honest with me. If I am going to say happy birthday, do I make it short? Happy Birthday or Happy birthday. Hope you have a good day etc ? I just don't want to come across like I am obsessed with her, like I have been counting down the days until her birthday. Am I just over-thinking this?
It-is-what-it-is. Posted July 20, 2013 Posted July 20, 2013 (edited) Not really a problem compared to some people's on here. I just don't know what to do. Me and my ex broke up about 7 weeks ago. We are meant to be friends, but for the past 2 weeks I have been doing my own secret NC. It is her birthday next week, do I send her a happy birthday text? I do want to be friends, but in my own time. I don't know why dumpers expect you to be able to be friends straight away. I just don't want her to think I hate her, I don't. She didn't do anything but be honest with me. If I am going to say happy birthday, do I make it short? Happy Birthday or Happy birthday. Hope you have a good day etc ? I just don't want to come across like I am obsessed with her, like I have been counting down the days until her birthday. Am I just over-thinking this? I think that if it does not set your healing back, a happy birthday on Facebook or a text is fine, and more than enough. Happy Birthday, hope you have a great day! Same thing you would say to any friend. No more, no less. Edited July 20, 2013 by It-is-what-it-is. Oops
theonlyjuan Posted July 20, 2013 Posted July 20, 2013 " Happy Birthday. Hope you have a great time x " Not " Happy Birthday. Hope you have such a great time. I miss you. I hope I see you soon xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx " 1
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