Jcishere1993 Posted July 19, 2013 Posted July 19, 2013 Im 20 years and i dont have any friends or never had a gf. i had girls approach me in the past etc, one girl approached me and used to sit beside but she rejected me for a reason i dont even know.Then i asked loads of people on yahoo answers if the girl i liked liked me back had feeling sfor me and they said no she didnt which really hurt becaus ei kept asking the question and i would always get the same exact response which kept hurting my feelings.Then i asked loads of people to rate my looks and body and they all gave me bad ratings and claled m eugly etc and made fun of me etc. Now its not normal to feel so bad, but i feel like a loser because i got rejected by society so many times and ill never forget it, basically i am a loser because no loser gets rejected that many times or forgets it. I dont actively seek out women, they come to me then i ask yahoo answers if they like me and yahoo answers says no they dont which hurts my self esteem and its a vicious cycle of constantly asking for reassurance and constantly getting putting down.
CptSaveAho Posted July 19, 2013 Posted July 19, 2013 so instead of asking the girl that approaches you you ask a bunch of idiots that have nothing better to do than to sit on yahoo (because they are real winners to do that) if a girl they have never met likes a guy they have never met and then you feel REJECTED by the yahoo people and not the actual girl that approached you I don't get people any more 1
Nick D1980 Posted July 19, 2013 Posted July 19, 2013 Im 20 years and i dont have any friends or never had a gf. i had girls approach me in the past etc, one girl approached me and used to sit beside but she rejected me for a reason i dont even know.Then i asked loads of people on yahoo answers if the girl i liked liked me back had feeling sfor me and they said no she didnt which really hurt becaus ei kept asking the question and i would always get the same exact response which kept hurting my feelings.Then i asked loads of people to rate my looks and body and they all gave me bad ratings and claled m eugly etc and made fun of me etc. Now its not normal to feel so bad, but i feel like a loser because i got rejected by society so many times and ill never forget it, basically i am a loser because no loser gets rejected that many times or forgets it. I dont actively seek out women, they come to me then i ask yahoo answers if they like me and yahoo answers says no they dont which hurts my self esteem and its a vicious cycle of constantly asking for reassurance and constantly getting putting down. You're still young. If I was 20 again, I would learned what I learned from the past 10-13 years and apply them. For me women don't care about looks all they care about is a confident guy. I think I look like a dork, but I have to have confidence. Maybe you are seeking the immature girls that cares about a guys appearence. I in a way got rejected this morning but I will continue to be her friend whenever I see her. No big deal. Also I once saw an ad above a urinal that says "If you go to a bar and ask out 100 women and they all say no, than you should go to another bar". One will say yes. I know I won't stop trying until one say yes.
New User Posted July 20, 2013 Posted July 20, 2013 Seeking external validation rarely works out very well. No friends? What are you doing to change that? Interests? Activities? As to looks- I'd agree with the most excellently named CptSaveAho. Unless people are running screaming from you in the streets, I wouldn't take anything said by a group of of people on Yahoo all that seriously. It sounds like you are seriously lacking in confidence- I'd work on that. If you aren't working out, start doing that in some way. It may not make you look any better but it will make you feel better. Ask yourself why you care what a bunch of people that you have never met think of your looks.
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