Allen101 Posted July 19, 2013 Posted July 19, 2013 So after our recent breakup i ask her if she wanted to meet somewhere and talk about our relationship because at the time of the break up i didnt really get to say the things i wanted to say to her. I also had a small hope that maybe we could work things out. So I texted her today asking if she could make time and hangout somewhere to talk about things regarding the relationship and how it ended BUT She fking replys with "About? O.o". Seriously I'm done trying to piece this back. NC from now on, cant beleive she's the same girl i fell head over heels for. 1 week ago everything is fine, then she finds some freedom going to Anime Expo with her friends for 4 days, few days after she comes back and decides to end it and says the relationship was really pointless and that I'm unnecessary stress for her....
petall Posted July 19, 2013 Posted July 19, 2013 Aren't you glad you've seen her for what she is? Use this as part of your ammunition in getting over her.
Combo Posted July 19, 2013 Posted July 19, 2013 Yeah why would you even want to open up to her and talk about your feelings when she doesn't even care? Be glad it's over.
aloneinaz Posted July 19, 2013 Posted July 19, 2013 Ok, you ready? Here's some tough talk. You need to leave her alone. She dumped you and wants to go a new direction. You calling her asking to talk about a relationship she was done with has what value? Why would she consider wanting to rehash something she wanted to walk away from? You need to let her go. Lose her number, delete her on Facebook and any other means of contact. Have some pride and self respect. Don't chase her and beg her to talk about it. It makes you look weak and desperate. Two big turn offs to any woman. The best thing you could do is move on. Heal from that relationship. Find someone else who wants to be with you for you. Living well is the best revenge. My ex ended our toxic (because of her) relationship 7 weeks ago. She can kiss my ass and will NEVER hear from me again. You don't want me in your life? You got it. I've been dating for over a month and am now seeing a gal that's better looking, younger, has a hotter body and is a NICE person, something my ex wasn't. Dumpees have power. It's call disappearing from their lives and moving on to someone who wants us. 8
SimonSerenade Posted July 19, 2013 Posted July 19, 2013 I'm sorry man, that's a hard pill to swallow, perhaps the saddest part of the story is that it all came from an anime expo, very rare something bad comes out of something like that, I doubt she means what she says she's probably just trying to justify the break up in her mind by fixating on whatever small issue she can find, personally I think that bitch is hiding something, she's probably more angry at herself than she is at you, either way I would take a step back until the new found freedom bs rides it self out, deep down she probably is the same person you fell for but don't expect that person to resurface to you again, if you ask me based on how she's acting, she's an immature idiot, somebody mature enough to be worth your time won't so easily be swayed especially not by an anime expo.
SimonSerenade Posted July 19, 2013 Posted July 19, 2013 Ok, you ready? Here's some tough talk. You need to leave her alone. She dumped you and wants to go a new direction. You calling her asking to talk about a relationship she was done with has what value? Why would she consider wanting to rehash something she wanted to walk away from? You need to let her go. Lose her number, delete her on Facebook and any other means of contact. Have some pride and self respect. Don't chase her and beg her to talk about it. It makes you look weak and desperate. Two big turn offs to any woman. The best thing you could do is move on. Heal from that relationship. Find someone else who wants to be with you for you. Living well is the best revenge. My ex ended our toxic (because of her) relationship 7 weeks ago. She can kiss my ass and will NEVER hear from me again. You don't want me in your life? You got it. I've been dating for over a month and am now seeing a gal that's better looking, younger, has a hotter body and is a NICE person, something my ex wasn't. Dumpees have power. It's call disappearing from their lives and moving on to someone who wants us. You rock man!
Author Allen101 Posted July 19, 2013 Author Posted July 19, 2013 Thanks for the support guys! Yeah, im trying to move on and focus on me. Even though its really hard and somehow she always makes her way into my mind. I've been continuing doing Insanity, even though im so depressed all day that i hardly have any energy. I decided to renew my gym pass, so that gives me another thing to do. Hope, it gets easier soon. I've been losing sleep and eating way less over this break up.
JDPT Posted July 20, 2013 Posted July 20, 2013 She doesn't deserve to be given any type of power, don't lose your power to her keep it and remind in control. When we go through these weak moments is when we start losing control and immediately give in to our desires. As it has been said before if she doesn't want you in her life well ****ing great you will move on and come out a wiser and stronger person out of this one.
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