aloneinaz Posted July 22, 2013 Posted July 22, 2013 Agreed, here here! I keep chuckling at the 3 months comment. Really? My ex was (her words) "on her best behavior" for 8-9 months. Yes, I saw some red flags and some of her bad side on occasion the first few months but like so many, choose to ignore it. When she let her hair down, WOW.. she went from being friendly and great 90% of the time to MAYBE 40% of the time.. Her true day to day personality was toxic which explained why she had few friends and shaky relationships with her family. I remember vividly wondering why she didn't have any REAL close friends the first few months and never did anything with women.. BIG red flag that I ignored.. Oh well, I've bought that ground now!! I think you can see some red flags in the first 90 days but you REALLY see their true stripes closer to a year in. There's so many posts in the break up section from couples that broke up around the year mark...
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