davegreen177 Posted July 19, 2013 Posted July 19, 2013 me an my ex dated for over 2yrs. she lived with me and my family the whole time b/c her mom passed away when she was 14 and her dad is disabled losing his house. im 22 she is 20. she cheated on me with a guy she met online for only 2 weeks. the guy is 18. she moved out of my house into his. its been a month now and they are still together. recently she msgd me saying she misses talking to me and wantd me to come to her dads on sunday. i did so. she noticed ive been working out my new appearance and change in attitude. she was asking if i was seeing anyone i said no. she kept touching my arms and knees and getting close at points. we talked for about 2 hrs. she laughed and seemed to be flirty. she was talking about our relationship an the good times and why she left. she was tired of the arguments and said i wasnt there for her emontionally. then she went on how the guy is a sweatheart mamas boy whos taught her alot on the bible. i was thinkn great this guy wont f the relationship up. she then said she was confused that she still cries over me and that her heart is broken into 2 pieces. one is with me and other with this guy. Does she still like me on a romatic level? what are the chances of getting back together? will her new relationship work? i love this girl alot. ive already herd all the answers of forget about her and move on so i dont need those answers plz
Nyclovin Posted July 19, 2013 Posted July 19, 2013 Took me a while to realize that even though you think you want these girls who trampled over you back..... You really shouldn't ... You should have more self respect... This goes or myself as well 1
Philosoraptor Posted July 19, 2013 Posted July 19, 2013 Those are the answers that you need. She is toxic and doesn't show much respect at all for who she is with. You need to stand up for yourself and cut her off all together, there are plenty of single women out there without a wandering eye.
Exitleft Posted July 19, 2013 Posted July 19, 2013 So she told you they've been reading the bible eh but seriously, NC. She can't string you along and you shouldn't allow it. She's having her cake and eating it right now.
theonlyjuan Posted July 19, 2013 Posted July 19, 2013 Cut her out of your life. She don't deserve anything from you
Chi townD Posted July 19, 2013 Posted July 19, 2013 Okay... not going to tell you what you NEED to hear. So, I'll just tell you what's going on. She's cake eating (or at least trying to). She gets the mature emotional connection with you and get all her emotional needs met by you and she gets all of her physical needs met by this younger guy. So, she has the best of both worlds! But, let me ask you a question. How is that fair to you?
headsashed Posted July 19, 2013 Posted July 19, 2013 there is no other answers, you have to man up and walk away from this toxic woman. Answer me this, if she came back to you could you trust her again? how are going to feel when you are sat watching tv and she is online?
Combo Posted July 19, 2013 Posted July 19, 2013 Can't believe you agreed to go to her dad's after she did that to you. Need more self-respect.
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