Delilah1623 Posted July 19, 2013 Posted July 19, 2013 I am sure everyone will tell me this is a bad idea but my bf and I just broke up. He is very depressed and still in so much pain from his divorce a few years ago. He doesn't talk to me and even though I hate him right now I am also very worried about him. I thought about contacting his dad, not giving details on anything but just telling him that I think his son needs him right now. They are not mushy at al and he never even told his dad why he got divorced but I have seen the pain in his eyes and it breaks my heart. I just want to help him.
Philosoraptor Posted July 19, 2013 Posted July 19, 2013 I can understand your concern, but you each forge your own paths from this point. If he wants to reach out, he will.
Emilia Posted July 19, 2013 Posted July 19, 2013 I am sure everyone will tell me this is a bad idea but my bf and I just broke up. He is very depressed and still in so much pain from his divorce a few years ago. He doesn't talk to me and even though I hate him right now I am also very worried about him. I thought about contacting his dad, not giving details on anything but just telling him that I think his son needs him right now. They are not mushy at al and he never even told his dad why he got divorced but I have seen the pain in his eyes and it breaks my heart. I just want to help him. He is an adult Delilah, allow him to deal with this in his own way.
Author Delilah1623 Posted July 19, 2013 Author Posted July 19, 2013 You are right. I just hate how much he is hurting but he is doing it to himself. I am hurting more for him than me honestly. 1
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