bolase Posted July 19, 2013 Posted July 19, 2013 I've been seeing a coworker for about a month. He initiated most of our dates. We've slept together. He got out of a ltr a few months ago and seems very hurt (see my other thread; 'guy who seems very hurt'). However, he said he likes me, hasn't felt this way in a long time, seems genuinely stoked to be in my company. He even suggested we go for a trip together for a week next month. But. Last weekend I was working, he asjed me to contact him if I had any free time to kill.I didn't, and he had offered to bring me lunch one day, but that day i ended up working outside the office so told him. Maybe he felt rejected? He didnt even reply to that. He wanted to see me this week (i am working out of town now) before I left. He then said he was busy til 9 that night! but I was sick anyway, so I cancelled our plan. Since i've been away i've texted him, he took the whole day to respond. We texted a bit and I left it open. I want to text before I see him again next week: Hey..where's your head at? I'm wondering so might as well ask.. Bad idea? wait til I get back? He has low confidence right now. But I feel he's lost interest or confidence in us seeing each other and I want to ask!
Philosoraptor Posted July 19, 2013 Posted July 19, 2013 Seems like you already know where his head is at. He got out of something not that long ago and he seems like he's hurting. I'd trust your gut on this one and give it more time before you invest too much with someone who may still be in that rebound state.
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