bafflio Posted July 19, 2013 Posted July 19, 2013 I've known her for around a year now. I knew she in a relationship so I was beating around the bush but still tried to see her as often as I could because I really enjoyed her company. Back in April I finally told her I liked her (in a past tense) because I wanted to end it (didn't really make it explicit though) because she's in a relationship. I never asked her out because I respect her relationship. But I never told her I wanted to end our friendship because I thought that'd seem immature of me. Now she still msgs me and talks to me once in a month and I am wondering if I should really tell her that I can't talk to her anymore because it hurts. Is this something that's justified or is it just simply immature of me? It's weird - when I'm with her I feel strangely calm and pleasant - but it's right after our meeting/hang out when I'm not with her that I feel so empty and painful.
Philosoraptor Posted July 19, 2013 Posted July 19, 2013 Just stop responding. She'll get the hint and will help you avoid putting any possible strain on her life by saying "I like you and it hurts my heart too much to hear from you, so farewell, forever". It's only once a month as you say, so it's not like she'll be missing much by you not responding.
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