davegreen177 Posted July 19, 2013 Posted July 19, 2013 me an my ex dated for over 2yrs. im 22 she is 20 now. she lived with me and my family the whole time. b/c her mom passed away when she was 14 and her dad is disabled with no job losing his house. i took care of her with food clothes etc. i even got her a job at my work after a yr of dating. just recently she was sick off work for 2 weeks. during this time she was talking to some guy online. then one day when i was at work she went to her dads and then met up with this kid and cheated on me. she broke up with me while i was working. few days later she tells me the truth comes to my house screaming gets her things and moves in with this guy. but she left some of her things and said shed get them later? she also said i was still her best friend that she loves me? okay last week she msgd me saying i miss talking to you can you meet me at my dads on sunday. so i do so. i showed up looking my best. she noticed ive been working out. my change in attitude too. she kept talking about work since she was fired. she then told me she was sorry that she felt a wall between us that she was tired of always fighting latley and that she felt distance from me that i wasnt there. she told me at 1st she told this guy off and told him i have a bf. then one day he told her that god was telling them they should be together. she started liking him more then she should. she was asking if i was dating or seeing anyone. she kept touching my arms and knees and making up reasons to touch me. she seemed to be flirty. i still like her and i noticed a change in her too. she then went on saying im confused my heart seems to be broken into 2 pieces. one is with you and other is with my new bf. she went on how he has taught her alot about god and how he is such a mamas boy. knowing now that he wont screw her over. how can i get her back? i want her and i to try again. do you think she still likes me? she keeps msgn online. she has no money car or phone now. advice would be great. want to get her away from him and forget all about him
along60years Posted July 19, 2013 Posted July 19, 2013 She cheated on you and she is using you, she has been using you for your entire relationship. To me this sounds like her simply keeping her foot in the door in case things don't work out with this other guy. Drop off the rest of her stuff and walk away. Here she is expecting you to make her feel better because she can't decide between you and this other guy, that is pathetic and you should be furious not saying "there there honey, it is okay if you want to **** this other guy, I'll still pay your rent and rub your back". If she wanted you back she would apologize for what she has done and ask you if you will have her back. Shut the door, this girl is no good. I can't believe how much she has managed to take advantage of you, talk about ungrateful. Who cares that she told him no at first, who knows if that is even true, she still left you for him, hesitation is no consolation.
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