TheBestisYettoCome Posted July 18, 2013 Posted July 18, 2013 Check out false hope to see what I wrote earlier today. Here's the update: after I ignored the text message she sent me an email saying she didn't know if I got her texts anymore, that it would be nice to see me before I moved, but if I wasn't up for it that it was ok. She finished by saying "just wanted you to know that I was thinking about you, let me know what you think." Keep me from being the good guy please and tell me that I shouldn't respond and let her know that I appreciate the offer, but I am not over her. I don't get why she is doing this if she is dating/in a relationship with someone else.
Ashlaria Posted July 18, 2013 Posted July 18, 2013 I already told you that you were quite right. She is being unfair and selfish and you need to ignore her. If she wanted you back, she knows where you live, she could just turn up. Putting the ball in your court probably makes her feel better. If you don't reply she can comfort herself with 'oh well, at least I tried' You have a new life planned, don't let her upset it. Be strong and rise above it 1
Author TheBestisYettoCome Posted July 18, 2013 Author Posted July 18, 2013 She definitely doesn't want to get anything back. I'm gonna stand my ground. I'm moving 1000 miles away in 2 days and just dont want to seem like a jerk. But, she asked to be out of my life 2-4 months ago, so that's what she has to have I guess. I don't need to validate her decision as the right one, at least thats what I think this is all about.
Ashlaria Posted July 18, 2013 Posted July 18, 2013 Good for you. Stay strong and focus on the positives. You are nearly out of the woods and there's a really bright future and someone who will love you properly. Good luck
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