MoonSiren Posted July 18, 2013 Posted July 18, 2013 This guy from Match stood me up last Sunday for lunch date so I hear from him on Monday. He said he had a car accident happen to a family member. I believe it since stuff happens, right? So I try to make plans to see him this Friday (tomorrow) on Wednesday and he said he would think of a place/time then get back with me. Now it is Thursday at about 2 pm cst and I still haven't heard from him. This other guy I met on Christian Mingle wants to take me out friday. Should I wait on this guy to get back with me or go out with the CM guy?? This Match guy is very good looking and quite sexy in his photos. The CM guy is so/so in looks but seems promising. What should I do???
Mr.Mango Posted July 18, 2013 Posted July 18, 2013 Go with whoever can stand by their plans. No point waiting for the Match guy if there's no guarantee he'll even commit to your plans. Sure, life happens, but any mature person needs to be able to calculate that in. You don't want to spend Friday alone when you could have at least had 1 date. I do this all the time, and it has an added bonus, you're taking control. If Mr.Match gets pissed that you didn't wait for him because he took forever, then that's his own problem. Most people will know that they made you wait, and it's their fault. You are your own person, with your own life and schedule and they need to respect that. If they can't, then I wouldn't bother. Helps weed out people in a way.
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