Steve11 Posted July 18, 2013 Posted July 18, 2013 Reasons why I'm better off without her: 1. She manipulated me. 2. She made me feel worthless 3. I was constantly put down and swore at. 4. She hit, spat, kicked and thrown things at me. 5. She texted another man. 6. I had a curfew on when I had to be back, if I was late there was hell to pay. 7. If I didn't meet her demands, she'd get angry and threaten me with break ups. 8. She said by friends are pr*cks. 9. I'd have to cook all the time. 10. If she needed anything, like when she needed Zovirax cream at 12:30am, I'd have to get it. 11. She hates her job and that's my fault. She hates the people she works with and takes it out on me. 12. If I was asked to do something, she tell me I'm rubbish and don't know what I'm doing. 13. The sex was infrequent. 14. She's violent when she's drunk. 15. She puts her insecurities on me. 16. No matter how many times i said I loved her, she's beautiful, she's not fat etc. she wouldn't accept it and then get angry with me. 17. She was going to move into MY house, but I had to change things and get rid of my furniture for hers. 18. Don't you dare wake her up, if you do, jump out the window. 19. We could be getting on brilliantly, then she can change like the wind and I'm the biggest disappointment ever. There are more, but I need to think on them.
Author Steve11 Posted July 18, 2013 Author Posted July 18, 2013 20. She would think about what it would be like to be with other men if we weren't getting on. 21. I can't remember the last time she said i look good. 22. Everything was a problem, no matter how small, it got turned into a mountain.
youngnlove89 Posted July 18, 2013 Posted July 18, 2013 This is good. Really good. There are a lot of points that concern me. She has anger issues. Control issues. You are so much better than her. Wow. You don't deserve how she treated you! 1
Author Steve11 Posted July 18, 2013 Author Posted July 18, 2013 After all those points tho, why am I still in love with her? I got angry and shouted at times during the relationship but there's only so much one bloke can take. But, that's all that's remembered!
jphcbpa Posted July 18, 2013 Posted July 18, 2013 After all those points tho, why am I still in love with her? I got angry and shouted at times during the relationship but there's only so much one bloke can take. But, that's all that's remembered! "in love" or in love with the idea of her or wanting a R? seriously, that is not a list of someone to be in love with.
marqueemoon4 Posted July 18, 2013 Posted July 18, 2013 "in love" or in love with the idea of her or wanting a R? seriously, that is not a list of someone to be in love with. Or you really hate being single and alone. It's nothing to be ashamed of, a lot of people feel that way. But that doesn't change that if what you say is true, you're ex is a really messed up person.
It-is-what-it-is. Posted July 18, 2013 Posted July 18, 2013 20. She would think about what it would be like to be with other men if we weren't getting on. 21. I can't remember the last time she said i look good. 22. Everything was a problem, no matter how small, it got turned into a mountain. Keep going your feelings will fade as you eliminate contact with her and you start to feel better. Take care of yourself.
Author Steve11 Posted July 18, 2013 Author Posted July 18, 2013 Nah, I can be single, I'm happy in my own company. I just fell in love with her and knew that she was difficult, but when we were having fun and a good time it was amazing. I blame myself alot for the breakup, which is why I have so much guilt and regrets.
Author Steve11 Posted July 19, 2013 Author Posted July 19, 2013 She is pretty & she is a really good laugh. There was times when she was so compassionate and caring & these times are all i can remember. I feel that if I hadn't of got angry & shouted then she wouldn't of acted the way that she did. I must be a fool for wanting to be with her again.
marqueemoon4 Posted July 19, 2013 Posted July 19, 2013 She is pretty & she is a really good laugh. There was times when she was so compassionate and caring & these times are all i can remember. I feel that if I hadn't of got angry & shouted then she wouldn't of acted the way that she did. I must be a fool for wanting to be with her again. Don't beat yourself up, it's a normal reaction. In time you'll get over it and find someone better.
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