msalek89 Posted July 18, 2013 Posted July 18, 2013 Hey everyone, well here is my situation: About a month ago an intern started his internship at my job. He caught my eye the minute I meet him. He is very easy going so having a conversation with him was not difficult. I was able to learn a few things about him because we would have lunch together in the kitchen. He goes to school 4 hours away from here but his mom lives here etc. I took a month vacation so my goal before I left was to get his number. I was leaving Friday morning and I was not coming to work on Thursday so on Wednesday I decided to ask him for his number. I wanted to make a conversation first to not make it awkward. I walked into his office and told him that if he can do me the favor of finishing up a project that I was not able to finish (such a lie!). He smiled and said there was not problem. I asked him what he did in the weekends since he doesn’t live here. He said that he didn’t go out much unless his friend called but he was usually busy. I asked him that if he ever wanted to hang out he can let me know blah blah. He said that sounded perfect and he asked for my number (I was so excited because I didn’t have to ask). I told him I was probably going to go out that night so I will text him later. That same day, later at night I text him saying “hey , how are you?” He replied saying “hey, just got out from getting a haircut. Are you going out tonight?” I said “nice, yea I will probably go out I just don’t know where. What are you going to do?” He read my message (imessage for iphone has that option) but he never replied. I thought to myself maybe he was busy so I didn’t mind. The next day I text him early telling him I finish the project (since it was a lie) and to not worry about it. He said “Hey, sorry for not replying last night but I got home late and okay no problem, I am getting to the office in 10 minutes, are you coming in today?” I said “Don’t worry about it, did you go out?” He said “No, I was just running errands with my mom and got home around 10:30pm” I said “Oh I thought you went out, but you should of text me I was awake” I fell asleep and when I woke up I had another message from him saying “I am sitting at your desk lol!” I said “lol… I figured they were going to put you there”. He read my message and didn’t reply. I decided to text him later on saying “Hey, how did it go today?” He said “Hey… just a lot of spread sheets but its okay.” I said “That’s good I guess lol”. He didn’t reply… I wanted to get the conversation out of the routine so I asked him “what do you like doing for fun?” he read it and no reply. At night that I was at the airport I text him one last time saying “hey, I am about to take my flight. I would like to keep in touch while I am away. If you can download KIK and add me. If not I guess I will see you when I get back. Take care.” He read it and didn’t reply. When I arrived at my destination I got a message from him saying “Hey, I just read this. I will try to download the app. Talk to you soon and have fun.” I got back from my vacation on Monday and he was here. When he saw me he was making conversation asking about my trip and he told me he was leaving for 9 days to Barbados etc. After that he went to his office and so did I. I haven’t received a text from him and I haven’t text him either. I don’t know what to make out of it and I can’t figure him out. I don’t know if he is shy or maybe I shouldn’t underestimate him. What should I do next? I was planning on texting him and asking him to hang out this weekend but I honestly don’t know. Thanks for the feed back.
Elle1975 Posted July 18, 2013 Posted July 18, 2013 Let him do a little bit of the work.. To me you seems too eager. 1
Author msalek89 Posted July 18, 2013 Author Posted July 18, 2013 Yea maybe I should of not said that I wanted to keep in touch, but i ment that in a way so we could talk and get to know each other. I guess I am not going to reach out to him.
crude Posted July 18, 2013 Posted July 18, 2013 Yea maybe I should of not said that I wanted to keep in touch, but i ment that in a way so we could talk and get to know each other. I guess I am not going to reach out to him. It doesn't sound too promising right now, but what's wrong with a female reaching out to a male. Do you think there's a man in the sky adding up how many times a woman asks a man out and when it hits 3, you won't get into heaven? I love how women think asking a man you know out is desperate, but putting yourself on display in a public place and agreeing to go out with a stranger who asks is somehow not desperate. 1
Author msalek89 Posted July 19, 2013 Author Posted July 19, 2013 It doesn't sound too promising right now, but what's wrong with a female reaching out to a male. Do you think there's a man in the sky adding up how many times a woman asks a man out and when it hits 3, you won't get into heaven? I love how women think asking a man you know out is desperate, but putting yourself on display in a public place and agreeing to go out with a stranger who asks is somehow not desperate. Thank you that made me feel better. Besides he asked for my number, but oh well... I will keep waiting if not then it wasnt ment to be. Thanks
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