Author Talulah Posted July 19, 2013 Author Posted July 19, 2013 I find when you have moved on and they know you have, they have the most regret,I don't feel badly about my ex, he was always my friend and it has taken quite a while for me to deal with emotions i had from the break up.......he did some rotten things ...but...i was with him for a reason...he is a good person who made some hefty mistakes......i dont have hate towards him........hate is destructive.........i think of him warmly........but it isnt passionate warmth.....deb I don't hate my ex either, I think that when it comes to ending a relationship most people act out of character. It's just not knowing how your friendship will go.
LovelyScars Posted July 19, 2013 Posted July 19, 2013 It is draining, makes me feel tired and just the desire to sleep into an ever-lasting slumber seems to beckon at me during such days. Most days I tend not to think about him, mostly do some hobbies(reading, games, writing, you know the works)
bluegreen Posted July 19, 2013 Posted July 19, 2013 I do not allow myself to think about him and moon for hours. As soon as thought enters my mind I squish it and honestly i learned to do pretty good job on it to. Besides our lives are filled wit other matters and issues to much more important and deserving of pouring over he is so not even close to important as any of them. He is not important period and not that I did not love him I did ....
supaflyz Posted July 19, 2013 Posted July 19, 2013 I do. It was bad the first few weeks to the point that I think I'm going crazy. I can't keep thinking about her or random things. I have a few of those days here and there now, but nothing like the first few weeks.
Echo000 Posted July 19, 2013 Posted July 19, 2013 It kind of sucks being capable of having those emotions. Sometimes, I wish that I could be as immature as him and just be happy being. I was saying the same exact thing today to a friend..it kinda does suck big time. Ignorance is bliss to a huge degree. But at the same time, its hard for me to believe that i honestly would want to be naive, immature, etc. wish i could turn off my thoughts or not have as many, but that doesnt mean i would want to drastically change and digress as a person. It seems like you are similar in that.
bluefirefly20 Posted July 19, 2013 Posted July 19, 2013 yes. i do. i get what your saying .i spend so much time in life crying and thinking about the other person. to the point where it kills me inside. and then i realize that they are not crying one single tear over me, or caring at all. they don't care, why do i have to care so much.
mano Posted July 19, 2013 Posted July 19, 2013 Yes ignorance is bliss. I know he loves m too. But then again that love wasnt the unconditional one. Some people r just not capable f truly loving someone with all their heart. They mayb be affected but they r not stuck all day feeling distraught thinking about u. They r busy with their lives doing fine. Yeah it just sucks to see that everyday i intend to spend a bright new day without thinking about him but as soon as i wake up he is the first thing that comes to my mind. I know he might b totally busy having fun with his friends. Way too busy to even get the time to think about me or miss me. N i am here writing about it. Aaaarrrggggh !!
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