SoulSoldier Posted July 18, 2013 Posted July 18, 2013 A few weeks back I posted about problems with my BF and his emotional attachment (or lack thereof) issues. The consensus was that I should dump him. And I agreed with this. However, I haven't been able to do it yet. It seems like every time I pull away , my BF tries harder to keep me by texting me more often or otherwise making me feel better about things between us. And then just when I begin to think of making it work, or trying to, he begins to pull away again and the cycle begins all over. Basically I'm sick of it. And after receiving interest from other guys (but not following through on it since I'm technically not single,I know I can do better than my current bf. The question is, how do I break up with him for good? This is driving me nuts and I'm miserable from it.
Philosoraptor Posted July 18, 2013 Posted July 18, 2013 You can breakup with good if that's what you truly want to do. It's a simple as telling him that it's over and you have no desire to remain in contact or try again. Give it to him straight and leave no hope, it's the kindest thing you can do.
salparadise Posted July 18, 2013 Posted July 18, 2013 My suggestion is to quit allowing short-term changes in wind direction to rotate your weather vein––set your focus farther out. How will you feel if you're still in this a year from now? What is the opportunity cost if you know it has no long-term potential? What do you need to do to be the best person you can be? This One's for You
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