Good "date"..but not sure now

[jcm101]

So I met up with a girl off Tinder who happens to go to same school as me. It went well, got to know her and all. I even texted her after saying how I had a lot of fun, etc. and her response was positive and such. I didn't text her today and she didn't either, but now im kind of 2nd guessing and wondering if im really attracted to her. Do I now have to ask her out again? I wouldn't mind going out with her again, it's just im not the kind of guy to play a girl and make her think im interested if im really not. Im not into games. Maybe just friendzone her since we do go to same school? I don't know.

[1369]

If you don't know, go on a 2nd date. That's what 2nd dates are for: figuring it out. There is no harm in a 2nd date. Just don't continue to date her a 3rd time if you aren't really attracted to her.

[jcm101]

If you don't know, go on a 2nd date. That's what 2nd dates are for: figuring it out. There is no harm in a 2nd date. Just don't continue to date her a 3rd time if you aren't really attracted to her.

Ok, so i'll probably ask her tomorrow or so for a day to go out.

[jcm101]

So what is the general rule of thumb for asking 2nd date? Went out Tues., no contact yesterday. Too soon to ask out today for Sunday?

[MidwestUSA]

So what is the general rule of thumb for asking 2nd date? Went out Tues., no contact yesterday. Too soon to ask out today for Sunday?

 

Not at all. Do it now.

[jcm101]

So I asked her yesterday to go out Sunday. She said she'll be free if she doesn't go away tomorrow/Sunday with friend, but she'll keep me posted.

 

Nothing as of now. Guessing this one is a flop. She'd obviously know by now if she was going to the beach house.

[jcm101]

No update from her.

 

Looks like i'll just delete her #/FB and move on.