Nick D1980 Posted July 17, 2013 Posted July 17, 2013 Ok, I've been seeing this receptionist at the gym for a few months (just saying hi and how are ya). I started talking to her more recently (I'm a shy). She told me a little bit about herself and stuff. On a Saturday afternoon, I saw her on her off day and chatted a bit and asked me when I was coming in next. I responded Monday and asked her if she works monday and said yes. I workout in the mornings and she works in the afternoon...(I might make an afternoon/evening visit). Since I can't read minds lol, is she being friendly or is she interested? I might just go for it, but I want to hear from the experts first.
Philosoraptor Posted July 18, 2013 Posted July 18, 2013 She's at least showing mild interest. What have you got to lose by asking her out? Take some of that information she told you about herself and use it. Did she mention places she likes to go? If so, there is your first date. And bonus points as it shows you were listening.
Author Nick D1980 Posted July 18, 2013 Author Posted July 18, 2013 (edited) She did not mention anything about where she likes to go. But we are a decade apart from each other. But I don't think on my feet to well. There is another one that is close to my age but I did give her a compliment on her guitar bag once. She is a singer cause a gym buddy sometimes talk to her mentioned that she is a singer. *edit* And I know she is single. I guess I'm just socially awkward around women who I find attractive, but female friends not so much also I tend to overthink on situations like this. Anyways thanks for the reply. Edited July 18, 2013 by Nick D1980
FrustratedGuy91 Posted July 18, 2013 Posted July 18, 2013 I know exactly how you feel. In your place I'd gather a bit more of info, specially regarding what she likes to do and where she likes to go and then I'd ask her out.
Author Nick D1980 Posted July 19, 2013 Author Posted July 19, 2013 Hey everyone, so I just talked to her this morning, little chit chat. Asked her what her plans was this weekend, she said she had plans to go to Venice Beach with her girlfriends. I just straight up asked her if she is seeing anyone and she yes. She kind of giggled a bit, but no worries, so I left. Freaking chicks giving us guys mixed signals. No offense to the girls here. I'm too damn nice sometimes but I can't help the way I am because that is the way I was brought up. Oh well, plenty of fish in the sea.
Author Nick D1980 Posted July 19, 2013 Author Posted July 19, 2013 I know exactly how you feel. In your place I'd gather a bit more of info, specially regarding what she likes to do and where she likes to go and then I'd ask her out. She is about 20 and I'm turning 33 soon. She seems mature for her age. Not sure if she is going to college right now. I have my bachelor degree with no job lined up. I gathered enough info about her, so in case she was single and I did ask her out on, I could of gathered more info over coffee or something. But scratch that now. No worries.
Imported Posted July 19, 2013 Posted July 19, 2013 Freaking chicks giving us guys mixed signals. No offense to the girls here. I'm too damn nice sometimes but I can't help the way I am because that is the way I was brought up. Oh well, plenty of fish in the sea. She didn't give you mixed signals. She was just polite.
Author Nick D1980 Posted July 19, 2013 Author Posted July 19, 2013 She didn't give you mixed signals. She was just polite. Oh ok...........
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