Echo000 Posted July 17, 2013 Posted July 17, 2013 long story short. broke up with ex gf in january. went no contact till may. started talking, setting boundaries and planned on seeing each other in August when i move back up where she lives for school. Two weeks ago, get text saying she is moving across country. within four days, said goodbye to her and blocked her via email, phone, and fb. feel like i am riding this roller coaster yet again. i feel miserable. i want to reach out, just to alleviate this pain even for an hour. but she is gone, and i cant seem to accept this. i am not okay. i am staying busy and doing what i need to do (day 8 nc and trying to keep busy). But its consuming my mind. I am so tired. So hurt. :(
Philosoraptor Posted July 18, 2013 Posted July 18, 2013 I understand you wanting to make contact, but what if you try and get no response? What if you do so and you hear things you don't want to hear? Even just trying to contact can set you back pretty far and negate the progress you have made. You're doing good thus far, keep it up! 1
LovelyScars Posted July 18, 2013 Posted July 18, 2013 Sometimes no contact is better, your feelings will linger for awhile but you'll be glad for the experience. Take it as a step forward in life, it may be hard now but someday you'll look back and smile to yourself. Keep your head up. 1
Author Echo000 Posted July 19, 2013 Author Posted July 19, 2013 thanks for the replies guys. i will keep my feelings to myself. She is the one moving. i said goodbye already even though it was her that wanted to keep in touch. I need to stick by that and allow myself to heal. I clearly wanted her more in my life than she wanted me in hers. I could hear it in her voice when we spoke last. and if she cared she would contact me. i need to let this go, and move on.
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