FrustratedGuy91 Posted July 17, 2013 Posted July 17, 2013 (edited) Long story short: I had kind of a FWB things with a girl, she started pushing me to the friend zone, I stopped seeing her, it's been almost 2 months since I've last seen her. Details: HERE Now the thing is she keeps talking to me through FB, she ALWAYS initiates contact. I asked about this here a while ago and I was told not to budge too quickly (See the link above). But since then a few more things happened. Basically she keeps indirectly asking me out. For example, a week ago I asked her if the night club she works at was open and she said it was, but that she wouldn't be working that night and instead she would be going there for some drinks, then she said that I should go because there would be female hockey teams. I said maybe I'd go (It was obvious I wasn't going to). Some hours later she talks to me again, trying to make some small conversation, I keep it nice but short and then she tells me she actually has to work that night and just found out. Around 2 weeks after she asks me when am I gonna swing by the night club she works at so she can get me drunk. I reply "When I have someone to drive me around" (Since I'm usually the designated driver), then we keep chatting a bit more and again I keep it friendly but short. And now (about 5 days from that last talk) she invited me to a bbq with some other friends we have in common on Sunday. I already had plans for that day so that's what I told her. Now, my questions pertain as to when, if at all, should I "budge"? I obviously don't want to be just her friend, and the reasons she gave me make it more than possible. (See the link above for the reasons) I mean why would she insist on all this when she clearly knows I don't wanna be just her friend? Edited July 17, 2013 by FrustratedGuy91
CptSaveAho Posted July 17, 2013 Posted July 17, 2013 for someone that doesnt want to be her friend, you continue to keep talking to her how hard is it to stop talking to her and move on?
Author FrustratedGuy91 Posted July 17, 2013 Author Posted July 17, 2013 for someone that doesnt want to be her friend, you continue to keep talking to her how hard is it to stop talking to her and move on? Well first of all it'd be rude to just ignore her. Second of all, if you read the older post in that link you'll see why I still think I have a shot.
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