gb2222 Posted July 16, 2013 Posted July 16, 2013 I'm sure this has been on here a million times but what the heck... I met this girl on tinder. We hit it off right away, had non stop conversation for about a week until we switched to texting. I called her up and asked her out she agreed. she seemed very excited to go out. texting me things like "can't wait". Date goes great, we met up to get a cup coffee which lasted 3hours. We had a ton in common, we got along great, we joked about how funny tinder is and talked out all the disaster dates we have been on with it. She said I was the first normal/good guy she has meet on it. I walked her to her car, asked her if she wanted to go out again, she agreed. Later that night I texted her and told her I had a great time, and I just wanted to see if see got home safe. She drove about 30min to where i lived meet me. I got no response from that text. I'm not to worried, wait a day and ask her how her weekend went and how work was. No response from that. Obviously I can't help but notice she is active on social media, it's not like her phone is broken or something. My question is why don't I get a response? I've never had this happen to me where they don't at least say "thanks but no thanks". And this date went wayyy better then most, which is why I'm trying to figure what exactly went wrong?!? Should I contact her again? I don't want to come across as clingy or anything but It just seems weird I would no response at all. Any advice would be greatly appreciated.
Phantom888 Posted July 16, 2013 Posted July 16, 2013 Unfortunately, she is not interested. After 2 texts and no response means she's out. As stated above, there may be a number of reasons. She may like you a lot, but not as romance material. You had fun on your date, and she obviously enjoyed spending time with you, but there is less chemistry on her part. This is kinda tricky. I think I can estimate chemistry pretty well, and even I get surprised occasionally. There was one girl who totally showed interest....rubbing my arm during dinner, touching my leg, kissing me passionately at the end of the night.... yet when I wanted a 2nd date, she gave me the runaround. Don't be discouraged. This happens. Just dust yourself off, and move forward. Best of luck. 1
Author gb2222 Posted July 17, 2013 Author Posted July 17, 2013 Thanks for the advice! I've just never had a seemingly good first date end like this. Usually it's more obvious when someone isn't into you. I will definitely not be contacting her again. I guess there's a first for everything, on to the next one!
Lansing Posted July 17, 2013 Posted July 17, 2013 This annoys me so much too. I would never just stop responding to someone in this way. A simple " sorry, I don't fel like we are a match" or whatever is much better. Sometimes I have just tried being friendly with girls and had the same experience where the girl disappears.
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