Leegh Posted July 16, 2013 Posted July 16, 2013 I have been looking at the way I handle myself in early dating and came to the conclusion that I do not sound enthusiastic enough in early dating via text/email/phone to a new guy, and that he may think that I am not interested. I have a new plan which is to sound very interested initially, if I am indeed interested. If you are a guy reading this, do you like/need strong encouragement that a girl likes you to suggest getting together? Any comments also how women handle early dating etiquette, so that the guy does not feel he will be rejected?
Omaha Posted July 16, 2013 Posted July 16, 2013 Yes, it's important to show that you're interested. Of course, there is a difference between showing interest and being too clingy at the beginning. I think that when you first start dating somebody, you should show that you like them in the cute ways, like grabbing his hand when you're walking with him, hugging him unexpectedly, and kissing him when he least expects it. This is at least how I act in the beginning of the relationships I've had, but different people work differently. But I would suggest to try that, and then based on his reaction to it, you'll know if your behavior works well for him.
Legatus Posted July 16, 2013 Posted July 16, 2013 I think you should simply be honest with yourself and other guys. If you are interested then show it the best way you know how. If you really like the guy, tell him that - if he runs away then at least you know upfront who you're dealing with. At least you know you're being truthful to yourself. If you're not interested - don't force it. If you are show it, if a guy can't appreciate a simple sms like "I really like spending time with you", then sorry, he's an idiot : ) 1
Socks At Play Posted July 16, 2013 Posted July 16, 2013 Sign of an interested woman from my point of view: You give me your number.You answer the phone or respond to a message from me (within a day).We set up a date.You show up for it. At the end of the first date I'll try to find out if you're interested in going out again. After a successful second date it would be nice to see you initiate a meet-up. On the phone speak with a smile on your face. It helps.
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