mauserman Posted July 16, 2013 Posted July 16, 2013 You can look at my previous long thread from awhile back if you really want backstory..but to keep it short. I fell out of a relationship with a girl I work with. We got in an argument, other people made up rumors and just a bunch of bs happened that propelled me to break up with her... I knew I made a huge mistake and tried for the life of me to apologize and get her back. I literally begged like a fool. But unfortunately she realized that her herself is not ready for a relationship. But this is where it gets confusing. She says that she wants to just be friends, but then at work the other day she got super flirty and even said she wants a kiss...I tried to kiss her the next day and she wouldn't let me. She texted me and said that being distant from me makes her closer to me but she doesn't know what she wants. And she literally said, "I want to kiss you and I know it would feel right, but it wouldn't feel right for me". How's that for a contradiction! I finally talked to her seriously and told her my door for her is always open and I'll always want her back. But I told her if she wants to just be friends I will respect that. It seemed to go ok but...it's awkward between us. Whenever we text it's super short and she's not the same, hardly even friendly. Is it obvious this girl still loves me? She says she needs to be single for a long time just because basically she is a super busy person, works nearly full time and goes to school a lot. She says if she doesn't even have enough time for herself and family how can she have enough time for a boyfriend. I want this girl so bad, our time together was amazing and no other woman has made me feel the same EVER. I'm going to be away from her for a week maybe longer (vacation), I just don't know should I text her every now and then? Should I go NC? She gets upset if I don't text her...yet when I do it's lame texting. And when I get back to work...what do I do? I told her I'm done asking for second chances and that if she wants to try again she needs to come to me. It's just hard when she says things like, "i really wish I could kiss you right now". Should I keep trying to tell her we can work things out when she says things like that? I really love this girl... Thanks in advance guys
CptSaveAho Posted July 16, 2013 Posted July 16, 2013 Being friends with her, continuing talking/texting with her is not going to work out well for you Time to date someone new 1
New User Posted July 16, 2013 Posted July 16, 2013 All I'm reading is "excuse excuse excuse." If she was interested she'd make the effort. Begging never ends well for the beggar.
4givrnt4gtr Posted July 17, 2013 Posted July 17, 2013 She is stringing you along like no other.... Let me tell you something...girls are a lot like guys....when we want something we don't mess around. We only mess around..even the best of us...when we KINDA like you, and you like us A LOT. I hate to say it, but its a power trip. It makes us feel wanted. The more you beg, the more she is going to flirt, keep you interested but never actually date you. Don't let her play you....
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