Mer91 Posted July 16, 2013 Posted July 16, 2013 The Short version: Girl I work with almost daily, schedules overlap she comes in and leaves 2 hours after and before me. First date she wanted a reschedule friend or family something another was back from bootchamp. I said sure gave her hard time. She was extremely apologetic about not being able to make it. Second time she never got in touch with me. Text her twice once when she was off (how was work), and once at 745pm (Hey did you forget about me ) do not hear back from her. We had been flirting back n forth a lot over the past week, body language was good. Occasional bashful glances at the ground if eyes lock etc... Opened up once we figured out we had a lot of things in commons, sarcasm, interests, etc... Of course last night I was a bit agitated, but i am telling myself i have no idea what her home situation is, what her family situation is etc... My plan is to go in on Wednesday, and just be sincere no joking or sarcasm and figure out the situation. I just want to be able to do it without coming off as obsessed or controlling, or a dick. (Im a jackass yes, ill pick on you yes, but i always treat people with respect). What do you guys think
4givrnt4gtr Posted July 17, 2013 Posted July 17, 2013 Sure you could ask her, but honestly, do you need to? Put yourself in her shoes. Pretend a girl you REALLY like asked you to hang out. Would you cancel twice? would you not answer her attempts to contact you? would you not show up to the date without telling her why? If not, who would you do that to? ....aaaand that's your answer my friend. But if you want to hear it from her...go ahead and ask her....if she likes to have a power trip over a guy that likes her she will give you a ton of excuses. If not, she will tell you she isn't interested/is too busy/has a boyfriend. All in all though....go find yourself a girl that has the decency to care for your time and feelings. Honestly. Anyone deserves that much.
New User Posted July 17, 2013 Posted July 17, 2013 Alright, if I'm reading this right- the second time she flat out stood you up. There's nothing to talk about unless her end of the conversation starts out from the hospital bed where she's been since being in a horrible car accident or some other form of legitimate emergency that would have rendered her either physically or mentally incapable of the common courtesy of a call. Anything less than that is just her playing games or being a head case.
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