Dundas Posted July 16, 2013 Posted July 16, 2013 Well it's been over 3 months now since Breakup of a really good 2.5 years with my ex-girlfriend. It's very LC (We work for the same company) and I'm in a much better state than I was 3 months ago. The only problem is that I'm totally alone now and have absolutely no life. The few friends I have made and hung-out with are friends of my cousin... I feel as if I depend on him for everything now, and he's not a very dependable person. We're just totally different people, he's a very selfish person, only thinks of himself and seems to use people for his own needs. For some reason, the people I was talking to seem to ignore me now and my cousin is hardly talking to me now. It's been a love/hate thing all my life, we get along for a while then something happens and we go a whole year without speaking. So it's just a matter of time. I'm only 19 and now all I do is work, and stay at home with nothing to do. No friends, no girlfriend, nothing... and I absolutely hate it. I've decided to start college hoping things will change... but, I'll be going to the same college as my cousin and even take the same classes (Nursing, I'm not even sure if that's what I want to do...)... I guess only I know my exact situation but I really am in desperate need of my own life and my own friends/girlfriend, without having to depend on my cousin or anyone else. Any suggestions would be nice.
JDPT Posted July 16, 2013 Posted July 16, 2013 You have to proactively pave your own way, you are a free agent do to as you please. Find singles evens, sports, take on dancing, a new hobby. There are a ton of things you can do after work. If you have a Bachlors degree, perhapds contemplating the thought of a Masters may keep you VERY busy after work. You have to be very creative but never turn to alcohol or drugs you will only prolong your recovery.
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