zigg1 Posted July 16, 2013 Posted July 16, 2013 so Ive been seeing this girl at work for about 2 months now. things have gone pretty far sexually. we talk almost every minute lol. we haven't had sex yet but things have gone pretty far. she says shes going to get an arranged marriage and she doesn't want to get too attached to me, but obviously she cant help but want me because this is the second time shes come crawling back to me. we don't hang outside of work. so i asked her the other day to go out with me so i can spend some time with her outside of work. without having the stress of co workers around. she was up for it but when it came down to it she said she doesn't want to because she doesn't want to get too attached. I am seriously getting pissed. so i stopped texting her back today. giving her the cold shoulder. shes apologizing a lot but i don't care she tried to break it off once, but my main concern is if she is dragging things along so that when school starts she goes back on campus and distances herself from me again. i don't see a serious relationship with this girl. i don't love her at all. but i do like her. the problem is i cant get to know her that well because she wont open up. But i tell her everything and as far as im concerned she likes me a lot more than i like her. i dont know if she wants me to chase her or if shes just up to no good.
Philosoraptor Posted July 16, 2013 Posted July 16, 2013 She's made pretty clear that she doesn't want to get too attached as she has an arranged marriage. Enjoy it for what it is, nothing serious. Worthless to get mad though, as she has been clear about things.
Fondue Posted July 16, 2013 Posted July 16, 2013 She told you that she has this arranged marriage. Unfortunately, it is what it is. At this point you just have to accept it and either not see her anymore, or continue o reek the benefits of what she's offering you. Hey to be honest, if she's keeping you "happy down there" and doesn't want a relationship, that's just beautiful. You get to play without needing to make the purchase. That's awesome.
Phantom888 Posted July 16, 2013 Posted July 16, 2013 Arranged marriage? Is she from like an Eastern culture? Is she able to fight off her family to be with you?
Author zigg1 Posted July 17, 2013 Author Posted July 17, 2013 She's made pretty clear that she doesn't want to get too attached as she has an arranged marriage. Enjoy it for what it is, nothing serious. Worthless to get mad though, as she has been clear about things. ye but she treats me like a bf. i guess im gonna have to start being less of a bf to her and more of just a booty call. ignoring some of her texts and such. i just think shes already in love with me. she just wont admit it.
Philosoraptor Posted July 17, 2013 Posted July 17, 2013 ye but she treats me like a bf. i guess im gonna have to start being less of a bf to her and more of just a booty call. ignoring some of her texts and such. i just think shes already in love with me. she just wont admit it. Even if she is in love with you she has made it clear that her loyalties to her culture are #1 in her book.
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