Rexxy Posted July 16, 2013 Posted July 16, 2013 I first met this girl 4 years ago when I was 15, we had a thing for that one day and she moved away due to family issues, I never had any feelings for her at that time. Since that day we had never seen each other in person. Every now and again she would message me on facebook asking how I was and what I was up too and I would always reply like a dick ignoring her or just shutting her down completely because she had got into some bad habits. She had issues with her family and life in general and never really had anyone to turn too for advice except for me, Its not that I didn't try to help, I just didnt approach it correctly always putting her down for her choices instead of helping her through them. 4 years since the first day I met her, her persistent behaviour throughout those years of continuing to message me through some of her hardest times in life with me putting her down every time we finally decided to meet up in person for the second time in our life. She is a bright, beautiful and amazing girl and I fell for her straight away. A week later i decided to message her saying "I looked through our previous conversations and I've always wondered why you kept talking to me when I was such a dick to you" She replied "I really liked you" *my heart dropped I had not one idea that in these last 4 years she had any feelings for me whatsoever failing to pick up on any of the signs. 4 years and that entire time she had feelings for me. I'm now going to create a better future for us both, making sure she know's that she didn't deserve anything I put her through and she is the only girl in the world.
Philosoraptor Posted July 16, 2013 Posted July 16, 2013 Well at least you've figured things out; and hopefully you will learn from it and adjust your actions in the future.
will1988 Posted July 16, 2013 Posted July 16, 2013 I'm glad you learned your lesson... but you do not owe your heart to anyone just because they like you. If that was the case than every guy and every girl who has ever had a crush on someone would be with that person! Don't beat yourself up too much.
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