KB8 Posted July 16, 2013 Posted July 16, 2013 Hi everyone here's my situation i'm 24, she's 24 we're following the same classes at college (masters degree). though we're only 15 in our class i never ever noticed her until last week. we organized a bbq dinner in the countryside (we were like 13 students), she was dressed with a very short skirt, i decided to sit next to her, we talked a bit and she was constatly laughing because i know how to make someone laugh. during the dinner, she was constantly saying "next time we should bring sleeping bags so we can sleep on the countryside instead of leaving at midnight because its late" however next day in college i was sitting on the bench with one student (an engaged man), and she asked "hey guys we should go to the seaside next week, sleep in some campground etc etc" next thing you know we exchanged phone numbers, and her status on whatsapp is "bashert", a word used by persons who are looking for that person who will complement them perfectly, and whom they will complement perfectly. some of the girls of the class were saying "you should have taken advantage of the situation last night". last chance to see her at college will be this thursday, then lessons will restart at the beginning of september. am i dreaming too much?looks like she's a single lady looking for a man IMO. now i'm questioning if its good to tell her i'm all set for going to the seaside this weekend, or maybe i'm dreaming too much. plus she's hawt, perfect body and face. thanks
Philosoraptor Posted July 16, 2013 Posted July 16, 2013 What have you got to lose? You should ask her out and see where things go.
TaraMaiden Posted July 16, 2013 Posted July 16, 2013 Has it come to this? Do we really need to draw a map? take the initiative and try, FFS!! Ever since technology got too clever by half, we've lost the sense to engage in the subtle art of 'flirting and chatting up' and we need pointers at every turn. I swear, one day we'll read - "I was at her house and we were just watching TV, when she just ups, and begins stripping off, then, she straddled my lap, naked, and began rubbing herself on me. What do you think she meant?"
Author KB8 Posted July 16, 2013 Author Posted July 16, 2013 Has it come to this? Do we really need to draw a map? take the initiative and try, FFS!! Ever since technology got too clever by half, we've lost the sense to engage in the subtle art of 'flirting and chatting up' and we need pointers at every turn. I swear, one day we'll read - "I was at her house and we were just watching TV, when she just ups, and begins stripping off, then, she straddled my lap, naked, and began rubbing herself on me. What do you think she meant?" ahah well by your words i assume i'm sleeping right now...and i gotta figure out that all her actions are leading to her wanting to go out with me
TaraMaiden Posted July 16, 2013 Posted July 16, 2013 You have nothing to lose by flirting back with her... be imaginative, mildly suggestive, amusing and drop the hint that you like her! Honestly, I swear to God, texting has taken away the art of sweet seduction. It's made us brain-dead because the only thing we do now, is to try to read between the text-lines, forgetting that almost 75% of communication between humans, face-to-face is BODY LANGUAGE!! we rely too much on the cerebral and far too little on the physical and the visual and the titillating delight of innuendo. Sad. Really sad.
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