Why_she_did_this Posted July 16, 2013 Posted July 16, 2013 Hello good peoples, First off- My apologizes if this is a redundant online dating question, but what you people will do in this situation?. A girl is interested in talking to you (Online), laughing at you jokes, but never bring anything to the conversation, on here own. But answers every thing you ask , and honestly I have to struggle a lot to build up a conversation like this. Also she leaves early from the chats. I am confused whats going on. Next, day loop starts again, I am even more confused. I am pretty naive at this so please correct me where ever I am wrong. 1- if she is interested, then why she is not participating or initiating a contact What should I do to make her participate and when should I ask what on her mind. 2- If she is just looping me in a queue, How do I figure this out 3- If she is shy--- (I am too.. but I am working on it)-- How to figure this out.... If she is 1 and 3, I will hang in there and will definitely fight for it. Also, is it wrong to expect at-least some efforts in case 3. If its case 2, how to know this and when to start running towards the hills . I think the best way is to just ask her and clear the air, but still I am curious to understand whats going on (which case it is) and when is the right moment to ask "What is going on.. ??"
kassy Posted July 16, 2013 Posted July 16, 2013 How about you ask her to grab a coffee with you and see how that goes? Seems a much quicker way of moving the situation on one way or another
Author Why_she_did_this Posted July 16, 2013 Author Posted July 16, 2013 Unless you're a 14 year old boy whose only social interaction is chatting with girls on his computer in his mother's basement, what the hell is the POINT of bothering this woman day after day with silly, inane chatting on the computer? You're lucky she even wastes her time doing it. Grow up and stop with the silly, childish computer chatting. Seriously, it makes you look like a sissy hiding behind your keyboard. Man up and arrange to meet her for a drink or coffee. That is - unless you really are only 14 years old? If that's the case, then meet her at the mall and have a soda in the food court. Sheesh. Bulls eye, I already realized that long before I am just not sure when not to take **** from people, always making them happy, always being nice to other is load of crap. No one give a damn, No one, whatever I did till now was worthless. Was cowardly. Damn It everyone else is Right, Nothing is worthy of my respect, nothing. But still for the last of few times, thanks a ton, for being straight. Now **** IT Chapter learned and closed. no more BS. I had it
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