Kat_luv Posted July 16, 2013 Posted July 16, 2013 My ex changed after our move and our break up. Hes like a seriel dater now, rotating girls like nothing. Ive had my chances but it never felt right to be with anyone else,not even now. Some days I really miss him but then I remind myself about what a sick bastrd he is and the hurt he caused. Its not fair that he was able to get over it quicky and date again while hes left me with nothing but doubt & trust issues. Even though he was my first everything I dont believe that he was my first love. What im trying to figure out is why its taking me so long to move on, to let it go completely if I know that he isnt the one, that maybe I was just physically attached to him. Maybe it bruised my ego...idk I honestly dont even know what this thread is about anymore #latenightrants
Talulah Posted July 16, 2013 Posted July 16, 2013 It's been about two and half weeks for me bu I miss my ex sooo much these days. I feel like there is a huge void in my life right now. My ex was a very nice man. I could tell you that it gets better, but I'm in your same shoes :/
Legatus Posted July 16, 2013 Posted July 16, 2013 (edited) I have a strong feeling that people who get over their relationship very quickly actually "checkout out" of it sooner than official break up happened (I think it was 2 months in my case, so by the time we broke up - she already had someone waiting for her). It will get better. You have to force yourself to stop thinking about what he's doing and focus on what you are going to do. It may look like he's having fun, but the reality is you don't know the whole picture. Maybe he's trying to find someone suitable and is confused that's why sudden and frequent changes. You never know. But the best part is you don't need to know, your life is your own now! Edited July 16, 2013 by Legatus 1
lessica Posted July 16, 2013 Posted July 16, 2013 I like to think that while he is out living in an almost superficial?( don't know if this is the right word) way, you are getting to know yourself, negotiating your emotions, growing personally, and becoming wiser. These times, in my opinion, are a chance for us to grow and becoming stronger people. Sometimes it takes awhile, sometimes not so long, some are hurt more than others.. but either way you are growing, and even being on this forum, and questioning yourself, being retrospective, and trying to work it out shows that you are going in the right direction. Be proud to be who you are, and be proud for your depth, because some people are completely lacking.
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