askelina Posted July 16, 2013 Posted July 16, 2013 So i had this only romance with this guy that was wonderful I never had someone i could talk to like with him and he told me he never met a girl that shared his interest. we exchanged pictures and we Skyped (with cam) and he said he really liked me and so wanted to see me but I couldn't cause i had exams so we keep on talking like sometimes till 6 am. Anyways on our fist date he asked me if i liked him and what i am looking for in a man so I thought he liked me. After that we was not online or busy did not initiate conversation or told me to wait and then went online after me waiting for a long time. 2 Days ago he told he that he is not sure if he likes me cause he was lonely or if he really likes me also he said he needs to date to know what he wants. Anyhow he i get it, he is not interested anymore and not attracted. he did not say to me i was pretty on our date. But before that when we skyped he said i was cut. Again I get its over. So my question how could it go and be so bad after our first live meeting? what happend?:(
Elle1975 Posted July 16, 2013 Posted July 16, 2013 I had a girlfriend who met this guy online. They'd talk everyday, texted, etc.. They had their first date and the guy confessed that he wasn't physically attracted to her (pictures can be misleading..). Wish your guys had the same honesty. 1
MrTurk Posted July 16, 2013 Posted July 16, 2013 Because even though he saw you on cam....its different seeing you in person. The mind can enhance the perception of what he thought he liked about you. And then once he saw you in person....maybe he wasnt attracted. Or maybe it was just your mannerisms that turned him off. Or maybe he met someone else, and is just putting on a wishy-washy act to blow you off, and not tell you the truth. If you meet someone....and then they go cold like that in person....dont beat yourself up over wondering why....you will never know the real answer. Just continue on and live your life....its not the end of the world 2
BradJacobs Posted July 16, 2013 Posted July 16, 2013 what happend?:( Reality didn't live up to the fantasy. Pursue real people as opposed to computer screens to avoid this in the future. 1
Eggplant Posted July 16, 2013 Posted July 16, 2013 Chemistry cannot be assessed very well online. A person's aura makes or breaks the deal. 1
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