404namenotfound Posted July 16, 2013 Posted July 16, 2013 So I asked this in a lot more detail in the transitions section but I feel like it was too long and people didn't want to read it. The short story is this girl knows I like her and flirts with me. She is super giggly on the phone and we text all the time. We are currently about 100 miles apart but she is still bothering to drive up to my place to spend the weekend and she sounds super excited about that and is telling me how dolled up she's getting before she comes up. She also says she is super excited to see me when I will be heading down to her place later in the summer. Eventually we will be back in the same town when fall classes start up. Now at the same time she still sees her first high school bf/ex that she never really broke up with, he just said he didn't want to be tied down when he went off to school. They hang out over the summer but I am yet to hear of them doing anything just the two of them, they do this thing where they go places with about 5 other high school friends and do activities. Pictures do show up where she is holding hands and what not with him but it really does not sound serious. She likes him still (its beyond me why), and she is probably somewhat delusional about his intentions. So my thinking is she doesn't really know what she wants and if I show her I'm actually a good guy and looking to date her she will finally call it quits with the ex. I mean she's spending the weekend at my place, she has to like me. What are your thoughts?
askelina Posted July 16, 2013 Posted July 16, 2013 Spend the weekend but make a mental note yourself that says "she might not be able to let him go yet", so you wont end up getting hurt. But have fun, after the weekend ask her if she had fun and then be clear about your intentions with her and just ask her if she could see herself in the very near future in a relationship with someone else that is not that guy. (if your not ready yet to ask her be your girlfriend)
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