Save5 Posted July 15, 2013 Posted July 15, 2013 The other night while doing the deed, my wife and I were role playing and I whispered in her ear "I came over to **** you while your husband is at work". She instantly got wet and began to kiss me passionately. I could feel her body begin to squirm and her hands began to wander as if they were exploring something new...so my question is, obviously she enjoyed this, but does it mean she really wants something like this to happen?
GorillaTheater Posted July 15, 2013 Posted July 15, 2013 Probably not. But if that kind of role-playing makes you uncomfortable, don't do it.
oldshirt Posted July 16, 2013 Posted July 16, 2013 Not necessarily. Everyone has fantasies of outrageous things that sound good in the heat of the moment with someone they trust are comfortable with but they would never do in reality by the light of the day. ....... although I do have to admit, watching group sex scenes in porn and having fantasy talk and role playing games like you described did eventually lead to us becoming involved in the swinging lifestyle and we did do all of those things in the real world.... ... AND IT WAS GREAT!! It worked for us but for the vast vast vast majority of people It is just fun fantasy talk that gives a little jolt of energy to a perfectly happy and healthy monogamous relationship and that is just fine.
Philosoraptor Posted July 16, 2013 Posted July 16, 2013 She may enjoy the fantasy but have no desire to make it a reality. Ever watched porn or thought about another woman? Not really much different.
Author Save5 Posted July 16, 2013 Author Posted July 16, 2013 How would I pry to see if she wants that
pteromom Posted July 16, 2013 Posted July 16, 2013 How would I pry to see if she wants that "The other night when I said I came over to **** you when your husband was at work, you seemed to really like that. What about that turned you on?" Listen to her response and go from there. It's possible the thought of another man turned her on, or it is possible that just the naughtiness of what you said turned her on. Only one person knows, so you need to ask her.
oldshirt Posted July 16, 2013 Posted July 16, 2013 How would I pry to see if she wants that By having an open, nonthreatening and nonjudgemental discusion about it during the light of the day when neither one of you are in a sexually stimulated state.
worldgonewrong Posted July 17, 2013 Posted July 17, 2013 The other night while doing the deed, my wife and I were role playing and I whispered in her ear "I came over to **** you while your husband is at work". She instantly got wet and began to kiss me passionately. I could feel her body begin to squirm and her hands began to wander as if they were exploring something new...so my question is, obviously she enjoyed this, but does it mean she really wants something like this to happen? I don't get the problem. You initiated the 'fantasy'; you're culpable. Would you have rejoiced if she'd dried up & threw you off the bed in disgust? 1
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