myothernic2 Posted July 15, 2013 Posted July 15, 2013 Is there a particular time frame in exclusive dating that ittakes you to feel secure in that it's a "real" relationship and not afly by? For example, you stop jumping to conclusions (not saying everyone doesthis) the moment their behavior changes, like they don't text you in the morningwhen they have been doing so every day or you may not see them on a Friday butall of the other Friday's you have etc.
Philosoraptor Posted July 15, 2013 Posted July 15, 2013 It's just something you have to feel out. I've had some that have taken months and some much shorter. My fiancee and I made it official in 11 days, and I'm sure neither of us would have had an issue doing it sooner had we brought it up before then. Just trust how you feel and read what the other person is giving you. 1
RogerWallace111 Posted July 30, 2013 Posted July 30, 2013 Basically as the raptor said. You just know/feel it naturally. The time it takes for that to happen could vary greatly. In many cases I'd say it coincides with the point at which you start to really know the person. Or at least when you feel you know them enough that you trust them, and they say/show you that they're devoted to you. But, of course, either way nothing's guaranteed & "secure" is kind of a fantasy word as far as anything concerning the physical world we live in...
Keenly Posted July 30, 2013 Posted July 30, 2013 As soon as I see her treating me like more than just another guy, I know. There's also a certain way they look at you.
RogerWallace111 Posted July 30, 2013 Posted July 30, 2013 Come to think of it, my one serious relationship was locked in after 12 days... Would/should have probably taken longer but it was one of those intense infatuation situations.
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