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What to say when approaching women?


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So I guess the title is pretty self explanatory, you see an attractive woman and you walk up to her.. Then what? Yes, I know you gotta spark up a conversation... but it's a bit awkward just walking up to someone and just start a conversation there's gotta be a bit before just a one line thing before?

 

I should also mention I'm 18 so the age range I would normally be approaching is like 17-19 I guess

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All I can say is that this guy is the man...not sure if it works, but it might^^^

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So I guess the title is pretty self explanatory, you see an attractive woman and you walk up to her.. Then what? Yes, I know you gotta spark up a conversation... but it's a bit awkward just walking up to someone and just start a conversation there's gotta be a bit before just a one line thing before?

 

I should also mention I'm 18 so the age range I would normally be approaching is like 17-19 I guess

There doesn't have to be anything before. Just walk up to her and say "Hi. You look like somebody I know, or would like to know, so I thought I would come over and see which one it is." I know that sounds a bit corny, but what have you got to lose? Just be direct, but charming. :) Women like confident men.

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"Hi" is a good start. Then either ask a question or make a comment on your surroundings. If you're at an event talk about it, if you're at an amusement park ask what her favorite ride is, etc.

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Thank you all for the replies I shall take them all in :3 Another question though - I probably am not a great person for being able to read people... so what are some good signs that I should carry on or just leave? Haha!

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So I guess the title is pretty self explanatory, you see an attractive woman and you walk up to her.. Then what? Yes, I know you gotta spark up a conversation... but it's a bit awkward just walking up to someone and just start a conversation there's gotta be a bit before just a one line thing before?

 

I should also mention I'm 18 so the age range I would normally be approaching is like 17-19 I guess

 

It depends in which setting and on which type of girl. The serious ones will require a more formal approach.

 

Do an overall inspection before speaking. Most women give out messages regarding how easily available they may be.

 

The best scenario is to pretend you need directions. Act like you are going somewhere. Then, get her phone number just in case you need more directions to get there. Make it obvious that you are using the whole convo as an excuse to talk to her. The great thing about this method is that you never lose face if it does not work

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