Mjm1014 Posted July 15, 2013 Posted July 15, 2013 (edited) *Met at a nightclub/bar..got her number *She agreed to meet me two days later and we had a nice date. She seemed to have a good time from WHAT I COULD TELL. After the date she said she is free every night during the week to hang out again if I wanted to. *Two days later I asked her out via text and she said her friends were coming into town but she is deff interested and would deff let me know when she was free..she even put a " ;)" in her text *A few days later I texted her late one night asking if she wanted to do something in a few days on a Sunday and she texted me all excited and said "sure" and wanted to know what I had in mind. I passed out before I could respond because I was tired..It was a friday night so she might have been drunk though especially since it was 230am and she texted me overly excited which was unusual for her.. *Next morning I texted her what I had in mind..no contact from her until she texted me that night at like 12:30am saying she wanted to do something low key because she drank a lot during the weekend and apologized her phone had been dead the past 24hours.. *next morning she texted me at 10:30 am (for a 6-7pm date which I thought was odd) and said she wasn't feeling well and would "let me know" if she felt good enough to go out and we "might have to reschedule." I said "Don't worry about it" because I was annoyed and I'm a busy guy to have people playing games, heard these kind of excuses a million times, and she said "oookk." I followed up with a "Just let me know when you know." She never got back to me and we never hung out. No contact since last night-which was our date night. During this week and a half since I met her, she takes hours if not days to text me back and sometimes she says she forgot or something along those lines, never initiates anything so it makes me think she has zero interest since she declined me technically twice (friends being in town) then being "sick". I usually would get the hint, but why would she make plans again and also tell me she is "deff interested" and act all excited that one night?...do I cut my losses or do you think I am over thinking? My gut tells me she isn't all that interested. Most girls that are into me at least text me or follow up to reschedule plans..I'm not a chaser, but I enjoyed our date a lot...so what should I do? Thanks, I suck at reading people since I'm such a straight shooter 99.99% of the time. IS SHE MOST LIKELY: A. Playing hard to get B. Not interested/playing games C. Unsure-if so, do I back off or try one last time? Edited July 15, 2013 by Mjm1014
Author Mjm1014 Posted July 15, 2013 Author Posted July 15, 2013 So regarding someone like this that is playing the field...should I just act like I don't care and try moving on? I feel like this is the type if I chase that will make her distance herself more but if I act like she lost out/move on she might run back.. yeah basically I know what I need to do but it sucks to accept, I think she's just looking for attention but that's it..I should prob just accept it
SoulJazzBlues Posted July 16, 2013 Posted July 16, 2013 The biggest question is, why do you care to pursue this girl who is so luke warm simple from one "nice" date. It sounds like a bad investment IMO
sdraw108 Posted July 16, 2013 Posted July 16, 2013 IS SHE MOST LIKELY: A. Playing hard to get B. Not interested/playing games C. Unsure-if so, do I back off or try one last time? Well, there's always the possibility of: D. She was genuinely sick. These things DO happen, you know *next morning she texted me at 10:30 am (for a 6-7pm date which I thought was odd) I dont get it, why is this odd? 6-7pm is a very typical time to start an evening date.
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