jesha Posted July 15, 2013 Posted July 15, 2013 My boyfriend and I have had an on and off relationship for 2.5 years, and we broke up about a month ago (his doing) and yesterday he broke NC and tried to reach me all day even having his friends write me on Facebook and writing to all my friends on Facebook to text him since I blocked him on Facebook. He says he needs me in his life and cares about me more than everything and wants me to get back together with him, but I feel like he knows what to say to manipulate me into falling back in love with him. Since his parents got separated back in October, he has had a hard time connecting with me and he says he thinks he has a problem getting close to people. Even if what he is saying is true, I don't know if I can trust him anymore because I can't be secure in our relationship feeling like it could be over at any second again. Do you think I should walk away, or do you think he actually could change?
Philosoraptor Posted July 15, 2013 Posted July 15, 2013 Trust is not something easy to get back. If you do not feel secure I'd just continue to ignore it and work on healing. 1
youngnlove89 Posted July 15, 2013 Posted July 15, 2013 Oh girl. I'm right here with you. 2.5 years, off and on relationship. I can't trust my boyfriend either. We currently aren't talking. It's hard, but we gotta let them go and realize that we deserve better. It's going to hurt big time for a long time, but think about 5 years from now. Do you want to be with someone you continue to break up with and get back together and you can't trust or do you want to give yourself the chance to meet someone that offers you stability, commitment and trust? BTW, if that is you in your picture, you are BEAUTIFUL. <3
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