lookingrof Posted July 15, 2013 Posted July 15, 2013 I was not ready to date nor was I able to uphold my responsibilities financially , No car. But this cute lady finally asked me out and I accepted. Our chemistry was fantastic. She had not been intimate for the last 2 years, Sex was her primary objective. She smothered me with affection, gifts, lent her car. I never asked for any of these things. She bought groceries. Her son whom she was in business with found out and was jealous. He started introducing his mother to every male friend of his he could. I started suffering from ED but only slightly. She started cheating on me and lying, deceiving, insulting and giving me no respect. After spending 6 months endearing herself to me she threw me out like a bag of trash. it really hurt but I never called her again. It has been 6 months since the breakup. I saw the red flags but chose to ignore them since she was such a breath of fresh air. She originally told me that we were going to spend the rest of our lives together. I had allowed myself to put this woman on a pedistal that she didn't deserve. I learned and have moved on and even though it still hurts sometimes, I could never trust her and have decided not to try and get her back. She dumped me for shallow reasons. It was all about the sex and nothing else. She had a never ending stream of men to cheat on me with and a residence removed from the rest of the area so she felt secure in her deceit. I really learned and will never again date someone unless i am ready and will never again ignore the red flags and my gut feelings. She had the other guy all lined up so she never felt any pain but I know she felt a lot of guilt.
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