Dude420 Posted July 15, 2013 Posted July 15, 2013 So far I've had 4 dates with this girl and all has went well. By the end of the 4th date, before I parted in the subway, we engaged in an open mouth kiss for a tiny bit, it was more of a goodbye kiss. We're both very comfortable with and really into each other now. I also still stay in contact with her via texting/calling every couple of days, things seem to be going good. Now for the matter at hand, she's going to go on vacation to visit family next week, but I can't really see her this week because she'll be very busy with preparations (work takes up a lot of time). So what should I do while she's gone, should I just send her at least one message per week to show I'm still interested? Should I not contact her at all? I don't want to feel like I'm intruding on her vacation time, or maybe I'm just thinking too much... PS. she's been very good to me in the dating process, every time I've asked her out, she would say yes every time, and even go out of her way to suggest another day in case one didn't fit into the schedule. We've even agreed to watch a movie at either her place or mine after her vacation.
JustJana Posted July 15, 2013 Posted July 15, 2013 So far I've had 4 dates with this girl and all has went well. By the end of the 4th date, before I parted in the subway, we engaged in an open mouth kiss for a tiny bit, it was more of a goodbye kiss. We're both very comfortable with and really into each other now. I also still stay in contact with her via texting/calling every couple of days, things seem to be going good. Now for the matter at hand, she's going to go on vacation to visit family next week, but I can't really see her this week because she'll be very busy with preparations (work takes up a lot of time). So what should I do while she's gone, should I just send her at least one message per week to show I'm still interested? Should I not contact her at all? I don't want to feel like I'm intruding on her vacation time, or maybe I'm just thinking too much... PS. she's been very good to me in the dating process, every time I've asked her out, she would say yes every time, and even go out of her way to suggest another day in case one didn't fit into the schedule. We've even agreed to watch a movie at either her place or mine after her vacation. I'd shoot her an email/text or two, if she replies, answer. If not, just one or two while she's gone should do. I'd personally appreciate it.
D-Lish Posted July 15, 2013 Posted July 15, 2013 Of course, stay in touch- reach out. If you like this person, keep the dialogue going regardless of whether or not she's on a vacation.
clia Posted July 15, 2013 Posted July 15, 2013 I think you should continue to text her every couple of days. 1
sdraw108 Posted July 15, 2013 Posted July 15, 2013 I concur, you should definitely stay in touch. If you go silent, she'll assume you've lost interest and/or moved on to someone else.
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