italianmoto02 Posted October 23, 2004 Posted October 23, 2004 i have a problem...i need to figure out a way to show forgiveness to my girlfriend in a romantic way....we have been together for 1.5 years...and i completely messed up...i really need to help...a..s.a..p
Author italianmoto02 Posted October 24, 2004 Author Posted October 24, 2004 well my friend and my gf had act's that morning and i was gunna pick her up from act's..when she was done and have lunch with her and my friend...well when she called me...she said that they were on the way to where we were having lunch..and i said ok...(i was just a lil pissed from that)...i kept my cool and in my head i thought that they would have waited for me to have lunch but when i got there..they had lunch together without me...and that pissed me off...i kept it in cool til we left...i told my gf how i felt and she completely blow it around as it was my fault...earlier in the week we came up with this plan for lunch and we agreed on everything...but when she told me in the car that she was nice enough to invite me...and when she said that to me i gave her the necklace i got her that she let me wear..back to her..and took her home...i pulled out of her driveway and turned around and went back to her crying and begging i was sorry...and she said to me that i would have to make it up to her...cause i made the biggest mistake of my life....and she said that it has to be romantic and no one could no...sooo i just have this delima of tryin to figure it out...
bluechocolate Posted October 24, 2004 Posted October 24, 2004 What the ?? YOU made the biggest mistake of your life? I'm having a hard time trying to understand how this is such a BIG mistake. I would be a little ticked off that people I was to meet for lunch had gone ahead & ordered & eaten without me. Depending on how late you were - that is just plain rude. There must be something else going on here 'cause it just doesn't make sense that either of you could get so worked up over lunch.
Pocky Posted October 24, 2004 Posted October 24, 2004 Thank <insert deity> that I am no longer a teenager and that I am no longer forced to date and deal with the complete insanity of people on a personal level. I take my husband's BS over this any day... You're both being melodramatic.
Prettyinblack Posted October 24, 2004 Posted October 24, 2004 you forgot to mention how old the two of you are? Sounds like a bunch of crap to me, regardless. She is abusing the feelings you have for her. Is that ok with you? Think about that becuase a great barometer is 'how someone makes you feel', not the situation.
Author italianmoto02 Posted October 25, 2004 Author Posted October 25, 2004 Prettyinblack-.....i am 18 in feb. and she is 18 in one month....we both love eachother and want to be with eachother..and i understand what you are saying....its hard to say you wanna lose someone or get rid of them after (my gf) was the one who kept me from killing myself 1 year ago...this is why im in such a hard position for me...
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