tme0 Posted July 14, 2013 Posted July 14, 2013 Is there anything you shouldn't ask a boyfriend or girlfriend? Anything at all? The reason I ask is, my boyfriend and I have been dating a year and sometimes I want to ask him something but I decide not to at the moment. I know there's some stuff the guy should bring up, like moving in together and marriage.. But let's say he has brought both of those things up before (casually) is it ok if I bring it up, if I was thinking about it and have a small question? Is it ok if I ask something about a previous relationship? We've talked about said relationship but I have a little (unimportant...) question, more of a curious thing. We are very open and honest with each other, just there are some questions I wonder if I shouldn't bother asking (unimportant, random ones) Important stuff, I know is ok to ask
MrCastle Posted July 14, 2013 Posted July 14, 2013 If he has already brought it up, there should be no problem bringing up marriage or moving in questions. I personally don't like to give much info, if at all, in regards to previous relationships, nor do I ask a girl about hers. If she brings it up herself then I will ask questions about her experiences since she's already volunteered some of it. But I don't out of nowhere ask her stuff about her past and I certainly don't like being asked about mine.
Author tme0 Posted July 19, 2013 Author Posted July 19, 2013 He's given a lot about his last one. The others were shorter, but this last one was very serious (they were engaged). I know probably everything there is to know about it. I know if I were to ask him something, he'd gladly answer it. We are like that. If one of us wants to know something, we know that we can and should ask. He often asks me whats on my mind, or what I'm thinking about. But there are some little, random things I'd like to ask, that I don't know if I should bring up. they are things that would be indifferent to me knowing, but I am still curious to know it.
Treasa Posted July 19, 2013 Posted July 19, 2013 I have a SO, sort of...I guess, and I can't think of a damn thing I couldn't ask him, or haven't asked him. If you can't ask the small, easy questions, the tough times that come along in life may be the undoing of the relationship.
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