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Hi all, I came here searching for more insight to my basically meaningless question on being rejected by a girl through facebook. Basically my story is I met this girl in my summer class at a community college and I didn't even know she was in my class until about 2 weeks before the class ended. We had a couple conversations when we were paired together in a group of 4 or 5 people for projects and discussions (it was a psychology class). She told me a couple things about her after a conversation or two about how she just came to california from another state and she is busy moving and unpacking. She never asked me my name but I asked her hers. At the end of the summer class I couldn't come up with the courage to ask her or tell her anything and I just left class after taking my finals with hopes of seeing her next semester in a community college of many thousands of people at any given time which is pretty unlikely plus the fact that I didn't think she knew my name. First day of next semester she calls out my name when I was walking out of my class which was absolutely amazing and surprising considering I didn't think she knew my name. We talked for about 7-8 minutes before I left to go to my next class as she was trying to crash the class after my class. I would see her twice a week she would always show up early as my class got over at 9:50 and the class she was trying to get in started at 10 but I would have to logically assume it was because she tried to get earlier than anyone else. She eventually failed to get into the class and one thing that made me think that she may be interested in me was when she came early again as usual to try to crash but she didn't go into the class after we said our goodbyes although she told me she was trying to crash the class again but I believe the deadline had already passed. I don't see her for two months after then I see her walking the opposite way of my class after my 9:50 class that I was walking to. She had a 3 hour break between her 8-9:20 class and 12:30 to 150 class. She said she was going to the computer room to just kill time but she asked me where my class is and walked with me and we chatted for about 4-5 minutes until I reached my class and I asked her if she wanted to get lunch sometime and she smiled I am not sure if she nodded or not I was pretty damn nervous. I see her again exactly one week later at the same spot staring right at me when I begin walking toward my class with a big smile and we start talking again. She was with another guy but she turned his back on him moved a few feet over and turned to me and talked. But me being a complete wuss asked her very subtly casually we should get lunch again and said I am getting late for my class and left. Next was finals week and everyone has a different schedule so I decided I had to take a chance and do something about it regardless of the outcome. She had previously stated to me that she has a specific class at 12:30 so the day I was leaving from school I called some people up and finally found someone willing to go to the college page to look up the 12:30 classes at that specific time and there was only one of these classes going on. So I sat not in front of her building but about 50 feet away from the entrance so I knew she was going to see me but I wouldn't force her to see me as I had my face glued to my laptop to not put any undue pressure. She ended up coming next to me and talking to me and I just completely blanked out and didn't say much other than the generic boring stuff and she left after a couple minutes saying "it was nice seeing you". Then one of my friends called me when I was driving back home and asked how it went and I said not so well and he told me to come over to his house and told me to add her on facebook. I told him that is weird and creepy as we have no mutual friends but he convinced me and I finally added her and a few hours later she rejected me. I have never felt that way about anyone else in my life although we have conversed for about 45 minutes in total ever. I felt pain agony despair and everything else like nothing before and I still do 7 months later. Based on what I have told you (this is my unbiased events no bias whatsoever to get most logical answers) what do you think the main reason she rejected me on facebook? She has always been nice to me and I am almost near certain that the second time she was near my building a week after I saw her again randomly it was on purpose as she knew where my next class was because she walked with me. Now I am using my motivation and it is likely I will become a top professional athlete in a sport as I am making clear headway towards it as delusional as it may sound to a random reading this ( I rather not disclose which sport) and she will likely hear of me. Part of me is trying to reach this level for myself and part of me is because I want her to see how succesfull I have become. (1)Can you please give me some advice to move on and (2) Can you tell me the likely reason she rejected me on facebook ? Thanks for reading this whoever may have read it.

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