Highschool Posted July 14, 2013 Posted July 14, 2013 This will probably be long, but if you could read it and respond I'd appreciate it. Okay, let's start this off. I'm a recent grad from high school, headed in a good direction for my career and life, with plenty of friends that I have a ton of fun with, and a great family that supports me and loves me... However, my relationship experience so far hasn't been great, and I find that when I'm alone I like to mull about it. There's an incident I'd like to share, which is the only incident that's grinding my gears. Firstly, I've been approached by and kind of "stalked" by girls that were crazy over me, that I ended up rejecting as nicely as I could and it's been okay so far. But when I end up being attracted to someone, it doesn't seem to work out well.. --- I feel like a broken record but I'm mulling about this one incident this year, and I'd like to get it COMPLETELY out of my head so I don't mull anymore: I got very attracted to a girl (who was a friend) that I was with at a dance last year. This year we were texting a lot and got closer. Eventually I let her know of my feelings, but a few days later she started ignoring me and acting upset over some misunderstanding that we had through text. What followed was me trying to talk to her, and her rejecting me and blowing up on me, cussing me out and calling me a lot of nasty things, then going to the principal and crying over this "creepy guy" who she wanted to leave her alone....? I talked with them after they called me down the next day, they believed I didn't do anything wrong and said she completely overreacted. They called her and had a talk with her. I haven't spoken to her since, but got PLENTY of cold, death-stares throughout the year. The incident was about eight months ago, and now we're graduated. --- This girl asked a friend of mine to prom, a guy she knew I was friends with but didn't actually know. I'm not sure if she just liked him or wanted to upset me (a couple of friends told me after of experiences with this girl and how nuts she is), but he knew I was really upset over her and said no to her. I got a lot of death stares at prom from her, who went dateless. I had fun, though. At the last week of school she walked up to me when I was talking to a group of guys, and just stood there. When I turned to her she gave a little smile, but then left really quickly. Maybe she was trying to talk? Idk. I sent her an email at the end of the year to wish her luck in the future. I'm WAY over this girl, but just wish that we could've been civil and talked about what happened. I'm still confused as all hell though.... What happened? Her parents are REALLY strict and push her to succeed/stress her out, I think they flipped on her and she flipped on me? Any guesses? I was just so nice to her always, was always there for her, and I don't understand why she'd call me the names she did. If I were some guy who tried to rape her, treated her horribly and was constantly inappropriate to her it might be more justified. ---- It would be nice to get over this. :/
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