Msmickey Posted July 14, 2013 Posted July 14, 2013 Hey hi, just feel really troubled by this. I have been dating this guy for some time, he is from American and study here. We went on date to the beach yesterday, and it was very relaxing and comfortable. Therefore we talked about something which I always want to know, the girls he had sex. I know him online and I knew that he met some of the girls there before me, but I didn't expect 9, and he did sex all of them. I'm actually fine with it, cause I thought maybe they are attractive and he liked them. Likewise no, he didn't like them, he was just saying it was really easy, to get a girl here as everyone here like white guys, girls throwing themselves to him. I feel upset and shocked after knowing this, he says he likes me and not seeing anyone now. Saying his my boyfriend, but he doesn't act like one. Anyway I expected a text from him after we separate to individual homes as I wasn't happy at all, he knows it and kept showering kisses yesterday. I just feel that he is not worth my time anymore, his cheap and not as great as I thought. Is it really normal for guys to make love with someone who isn't attractive or they doesn't like?
Deepwounds Posted July 14, 2013 Posted July 14, 2013 There is doing it and then there is OVERDOING IT. 9 chicks? And he must be 18-25 if hes studying (Depending) I wouldn't put it passed him as a player bending the fact that he is white, but for the shear fact it really doesn't matter who hes was with before you but only who hes with after (If you guys are together/official) Then that comes into a whole different aspect of relationship advice that I am sure you can ask if need be. Do you guys **** now? Does he only get with you 1-2 days a week, or contacts you 1-2 a days a week? Guys are good at playing the game, but most guys think their too good and forget to cover up, and that is why most get caught (Im not a cheater but I know a few)
Author Msmickey Posted July 14, 2013 Author Posted July 14, 2013 Yeah he is 23 this year, and he has been since April, just almost 4 months. We are not officially together cause we are still in early stage. We always hang out only once a week and don't text each other often too.. I tried asking him about not afraid of losing me, and he just joked about it. Anyway Thankyou for your reply!
Deepwounds Posted July 14, 2013 Posted July 14, 2013 Yeah he is 23 this year, and he has been since April, just almost 4 months. We are not officially together cause we are still in early stage. We always hang out only once a week and don't text each other often too.. I tried asking him about not afraid of losing me, and he just joked about it. Anyway Thankyou for your reply! to many loopholes, Hes 23 in college hes just trying to have fun. My opinion back off a bit and dnt engage convo with him for a week or so, and if he contacts you just say you are super busy etc. He asks to hang out durring that time say you are busy. This results into seeing if hes into you or just another player. If hes into you and wants to be serious then hes will try to continue contact durring this time, if not then nothing was lost he will vanish and you would be saved from heartache.
Author Msmickey Posted July 14, 2013 Author Posted July 14, 2013 Thank you so much for your comments, I don't think I will want to see him any sooner too. Thankyou again
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