newmoon Posted July 14, 2013 Posted July 14, 2013 my long term bf and I have been through ups and downs a lot. but this break-up beats all and has put us at the point of no return. my dad died on july 4th and my bf broke up with me on july 8th. I asked my bf to babysit my 2 dogs for 3 days while I took a flight to see my dad in the hospital and my bf said no. thankfully a neighbor said yes and I was able to see my dad right before he died. two days after my dad died I called my bf unkind and told him to pray that god forgives him for saying no to me. a few days later he tells me it's over because HE IS HURT! can you beat that? my grief is pretty immense right now for my dad, obviously, but it's coupled with knowing that after 3 years this guy wasn't even a friend when I really needed one :-(
JDPT Posted July 14, 2013 Posted July 14, 2013 Sounds like your relationship with him was finished long ago. Time to pack up and move on with your life, save yourself the grief if he refused to take care of your dogs while you were away he clearly does not care to do anything for you.
hellischrome Posted July 14, 2013 Posted July 14, 2013 Well, we don't know the context, but if things are really like that, the guy is obviously a d*ck. Nobody likes to hear - Pray God he forgives you - but still you had a good "excuse" to say that. Just let him go, whatever, now it's time to heal for your dad as is one of those things that changes your life and you have to come to terms with that (sorry, I am not a native speaker and I'm not sure it makes sense). He behaved really bad and now you will have the chance to surround yourself with people that really deserve your friendship and your love.
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