drake13 Posted July 14, 2013 Posted July 14, 2013 I recently posted here about my bi polar ex fiance coming back to me, I made the decision to not take her back, she said she wouldn't give up on me, she's texting, calling and showing up at my door, I tell her to leave me alone nicely and she still persists, what can I do, I don't want to bring the cops in to this, what other choices do I have?, I'm riding it out hoping she will give up.
AllTooWell Posted July 14, 2013 Posted July 14, 2013 I don't remember if you have kids or not Block her number. Lock your door. Ignore all contact. DO NOT CAVE AND CONTACT HER because it will SIMPLY fuel her. Stop telling her to leave you alone. Stop replying. COMPLETELY disappear. Stay with a friend if you have to. She'll calm down soon.
SimonSerenade Posted July 14, 2013 Posted July 14, 2013 (edited) I read your other post man, I'm so sorry you had to go through that, I had an ex who I believed had a personality disorder, I know it's not exactly the same but your experience felt a little familiar to mine, she cut me off all the same either way, I don't blame you for not wanting her back, I miss my ex a lot at times and sometimes there's nothing I'd love more than to have those good times we had back again, she made me the happiest I'd ever been as well as the most miserable I'd ever been all at once, it was exhausting to say the least, I'm in counselling for it now and it really does help, she stripped me of so much self confidence I felt I couldn't do a thing, since she left I've improved my life in a few ways, I even got my old job back I was depressed when she left, now I'm starting to feel relieved that she can't treat me like she did anymore yet I'd still love to hear from her someday for an apology or to hear something meaningful. Sorry I got off topic, I wouldn't involve the authorities unless the situation got really bad, I think she'll eventually get the point if you keep telling her you don't want her back, just keep ignoring the phone and keep your curtains shut tight, use the police as a last resort, I know you want her gone but you don't want her remembering you like that, take care of yourself matey, I think you made the right decision. Edited July 14, 2013 by SimonSerenade
Author drake13 Posted July 14, 2013 Author Posted July 14, 2013 Thank you guys, I've arranged to stay with a friend if she appears at my door again, a few months a go I would of been over the moon with the attention she's giving me now, now I don't want anything from her, I'm sorry to hear your story Simon, unfortunately the risk doesn't always pay off when you date somebody with mental health problems, I hope your focusing your attention on you now.
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